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We exchange texts regularly, but he hasn't yet asked me to meet outside work. Do I wait for him to ask me out?

Q.   I met this guy through work and he had just came out of a long term relationship and we had been texting and then went on a date and he kissed me, but afterwards he avoided meeting up and he stopped texting me. He eventually told me it was beca...

A.   5 September 2016: I can't see the point sometimes why guys are so hard to read, they'll text you today and ignore you the next day. Texting is a very unreliable factor on determining if the other person is into you or not. I have a guy friend from work whom I see ... (read in full...)

Is it likely that my GF thinks of nothing when she masturbates? Is she telling lies? I'd like to spice things up.

Q.   I've been trying to spice things up and find out what turns my gf on but she told me she doesn't think of anything while she masturbates. Is she lieing? ...

A.   27 August 2016: Yes, she's probably lying. I myself find the need to watch something just to get off. If I'll do it without any aide, it's pretty hard for me to imagine things or a scenario to turn me on. It's a case to case basis really, what turns me on is more ... (read in full...)

My husband hates me while I'm working, then doesn't care about me when I lose my job! Any advice?

Q.   I'm a newcomer to this country and I'm having troubles with finding a new job and my marriage. I got here few months ago, found a job which was my dream job since college. Bad news, got laid off weeks ago. It is a terrible feeling not having a job ...

A.   24 November 2015: Hey caregiver! Thanks so much for the comprehensive advice. Yes, you're right I'm very sensitive now. I'll take your pieces of advice. I'm now de-stressing to clear my mind and preparing myself for a fresh start not only in my career but life in ... (read in full...)

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

Q.   Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

A.   24 November 2015: Age doesn't matter as well as height in terms of Love. Confidence is everything. I have my classmate in college who is now very successful in life. He focused on his skills to boosts his confidence to overshadow his lack of height. Frankly, we girls ... (read in full...)

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

Q.   Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

A.   23 November 2015: Liars will always be liars. Trust me. Been there, Done that. The strongest foundation of a good relationship is honesty.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has lied so much in the past that I don't know if he can truly change.

Q.   Guys please help! I am in a relationship with this guy for 3 years now. 1.5 years were long distance.. it was a mess. He was a casanova during his college years before he asked me out. He had nothing but girls in his life. He even lied to me about...

A.   22 July 2013: I kinda relate, yes people change but it depends on the person ofcourse. My boyfriend or my husband now has this girl habits too. Hes so attached to his girl friends then I married him and I thought he'll change since were already married but I was ... (read in full...)

5 years together...and then a new girl enters my life.

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 5 years. And I admit that i'm a good and committed lover. In-fact, this is my first relationship. Well Everything's going well. The honey moon period is over, we had our good and bad times together as a coup...

A.   20 May 2013: Hi, I myself found my soulmate but I chose my boyfriend and were married niw and I can tell ive made the right choice. As they say "not all soulmates are meant to be together." Just my opinion from my experience. Choose that person whom you imagined ... (read in full...)

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