Losing interest?
Q. My friend with benefits always used to arrange to see me, now it seems the other way around if I didn't put the effort in I could go a month without seeing him. When I do ask him to meet me he normally would. The time he did choose I was busy then ...
A. 14 November 2009: You have to remind yourself that this is a "friend's with benefits" relationship. Therefore you cannot have any expectations. Consider that you may have allowed yourself to become too attached/involved.
I see no reason why you can't try to initi... (read in full...)
I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?
Q. Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any e...
A. 14 November 2009: Well, everyone has to have a "first" (or else they have no one) and a "first" is, by it's nature, singular - you will only have one. Once we have that one we can't change it, no matter how hard we might try.
Your boyfriend can't do anything... (read in full...)
She surprised me by saying she wants sex!
Q. Allo My girlfriend and i have been together for two years, and we're fine and dandy. Recently though she surprised me by saying she wants sex. She surprised me more then by asking 'What if I was drunk and I had sex with another guy at a party a...
A. 14 November 2009: Sounds like you have a pretty significant trust issue looming, with a lot of factors to consider.
First off, in this situation there are only a few facts, the rest is going to become speculation. You are going to have to separate the possibil... (read in full...)
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