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I feel like I'm losing her to her husband (whom she left)...

Q.   I met this girl at work, she had just seperated with her husband and has a 2 year old child, and she lived with me for 3 + months in which time we grew very very close. Now she has been back at the husbands for about 3 months during which tim...

A.   26 November 2007: ok well here is the update :-( I saw her today and we talked and we have ended it now , she says that i am still the best man and only man she will ever want to be with. but because she is married and the fact she has a young daughter she... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm losing her to her husband (whom she left)...

Q.   I met this girl at work, she had just seperated with her husband and has a 2 year old child, and she lived with me for 3 + months in which time we grew very very close. Now she has been back at the husbands for about 3 months during which tim...

A.   25 November 2007: thanks dearkelja you are very right when you say "Meanwhile, you need to be thinking that she most likely will not choose you and then you need to move on" that is what i am thinking and i am starting to just hold on ,,, thats what has been making ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm losing her to her husband (whom she left)...

Q.   I met this girl at work, she had just seperated with her husband and has a 2 year old child, and she lived with me for 3 + months in which time we grew very very close. Now she has been back at the husbands for about 3 months during which tim...

A.   25 November 2007: thanks issy hun its so so hard its very early days as i have not spoke to her yet , i should be with her all day on monday though so then could be crunch time :-( no dinku ,we both love each other, we are each others ideal partners but bec... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm losing her to her husband (whom she left)...

Q.   I met this girl at work, she had just seperated with her husband and has a 2 year old child, and she lived with me for 3 + months in which time we grew very very close. Now she has been back at the husbands for about 3 months during which tim...

A.   25 November 2007: i feel i didnt emphasise on how close we are in my post , we have both said we have never met someone like each other , we talked about how we would both want to live and be together for the rest of our lives. And we could both see eachother being ... (read in full...)

My soul mate is married to someone else!

Q.   Help! I've been searching for a while and I've finally found my 'soul mate'. She's perfect! Only problem is...she's married. I know I can't tell her, (I shouldn't have told anyone really but there you go), but it's affecting my life pretty badly. I...

A.   22 October 2007: i should add that when we met and hit it off she was going to be going through a divorce, i heard this on the phone and blazing arguments ending in many tears , what i am saying is that i thaught she was near enough single , would not of done it if ... (read in full...)

My love is getting divorced, getting back with her husband, taking a break... It keeps changing and I am heartbroken and lost

Q.   OK here goes i am 26 and she is 26 ,i am about to spill my heart out for advice ,everything i am about to mention is the truth , some things have not been mentioned to protect the people involved however this is only about half of the things i would ...

A.   17 October 2007: thank you very much for your recent answer , well here is an update for all ove you , i got a text in work about an hour ago saying 'if you can phone me later plz i want to see you tb' so i will ring her in about 10 mins and find out wots on her ... (read in full...)

My love is getting divorced, getting back with her husband, taking a break... It keeps changing and I am heartbroken and lost

Q.   OK here goes i am 26 and she is 26 ,i am about to spill my heart out for advice ,everything i am about to mention is the truth , some things have not been mentioned to protect the people involved however this is only about half of the things i would ...

A.   15 October 2007: thanks you 2 :-) realy appriciated that you have replied , i will keep you updated on the situation , in the mean time anybody else feel free to throw in your 2cents thanks again... (read in full...)

My love is getting divorced, getting back with her husband, taking a break... It keeps changing and I am heartbroken and lost

Q.   OK here goes i am 26 and she is 26 ,i am about to spill my heart out for advice ,everything i am about to mention is the truth , some things have not been mentioned to protect the people involved however this is only about half of the things i would ...

A.   15 October 2007: i forgot to add that prior to me meeting her at work , in the year before i met her she had slept with two different people behind her husbands back due to the fact she was unhappy and he could not treat her right ,,,, i feel like she knows exactily ... (read in full...)

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