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Is she just a confused women who doesn't know what she wants?

Q.   Ok here goes..I broke it off with my ex about a month ago b/c I felt like I wasn't full getting what I need out of the relationship. she is 31 and i'm 34..In the beginning, she spoke of marriage, having children, loved my house in the country, loved ...

A.   3 February 2010: thanks..I appreciate all the answers..I'mn glad I broke it off first, but man have I been hurting over it the past month or so..I hand-wrote a letter of closure that said i cared, spelling out exactly why I left so she could have some peace..You ... (read in full...)

I see the light, but I still feel in the dark.

Q.   hi all. looking for some guy and girl perspectives here. i'm completely open to any and all of your helpful input. i've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 and a half years. things were always great...of course some ups and downs. the impo...

A.   24 December 2009: look i know that guy wrote the e-mail about his x being happy with someone else and married, ect..it is better off you don't know what she is up too b/c it will hurt you more..only thing i can say that if she doesn't know what she wants and is ... (read in full...)

Does my ex have any feelings at all towards me? or is she indifferent now?

Q.   I was in a relationship with my ex for nearly 5 years. We met as friends but she was married and I had a crush on her, but obviously did not want her to know that. She was in a bad relationship with a guy she loved who she believed cheated on her. ...

A.   22 December 2009: dude, honestly..the professor is in for the ride of his life with this chick! don't worry about it, it sounds like she doesn't know wtf she wants.... (read in full...)

I need help making sense of the events, which caused our break up, help!

Q.   My g\f (now ex) was not jealous, possessive, aggressive and didn’t mind me seeing friends\family but was so controlling in other ways, especially domestically. I couldn’t wash up properly, clean properly, make the bed, i was clumsy, a grot etc. If ...

A.   22 December 2009: Well i just went through something similar but I think i was the one critcizing my partner. it comes down to different values and caring about different things. you are not "wrong" for the things you did or didn't do, you just didn't realize you ... (read in full...)

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