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Dating a year and I want to meet his family...but when I suggest it...he gets so defensive! What is happening?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and still have not met his family. Everytime I bring it up he has one excuse or another. He also shuts his phone off everytime we are together and will not talk to people over the phone in front of ...
A. 30 September 2008: Your situation sounds a bit similar to the one I was in but which was resolved this year. It has taken my boyfriend 3 years for me to meet his mother and I thought he too had a hidden agenda. It turned out that he was embarrassed about taking ... (read in full...)
Should I get my boyfriend a gift for father's day (even though he isn't the daddy)... ?
Q. I don't know if I should get my boyfriend a gift for father's day. i know he isn't my father. but we just had our 1st baby 2 months ago, and he is a really good daddy to her. He also works and supports us. I just want to let him know he's ...
A. 13 June 2007: Why don't you send the card from you daughter as he is her daddy. That is what my daughter will do. You don't need to buy him a large present if money is tight maybe just some body stuff to pamper himself with. ... (read in full...)
How can I be less needy, and more sensitive to her independence?
Q. I've been dating a girl for a little less than a year. In most ways, our relationship has been happy and strong. But over the past few weeks, I've found myself more and more needy. Since we've come home from school, and haven't been able to see each ...
A. 13 June 2007: Hi You need to go out with your friends or take up a new interest to take your focus away from your girlfriend and show her that you can function without her and you may meet some new friends and not feel that you need to rely on her for your hap... (read in full...)
Found some condoms in his case... !
Q. My boyfriend travels abroad on business a lot and recently when looking for his washing I found a bundle of condoms in his case. He assures me these were for when we started going out together (two years ago) but I am not sure that I can trust him ...
A. 12 June 2007: Thanks for all the answers to my dilema and I think I will give him the benefit of the doubt this time as on checking some condoms I bought the same time I started seeing him (2005) (which are in a drawer) they had a sell by date of 2008 which is ... (read in full...)
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