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Can I just not stand it that she found someone else now?

Q.   I was fresh out of university, have a great degree, just landed a great job, and was ready to settle down. I met a girl in a club one night, and she caught my attention. We danced all night, then exchanged numbers. We started calling each oth...

A.   17 October 2009: man i'm sorry. this is confusing and it does hurt because you are not clear in your feelings and what you want. in a way you can view her as an addiction, a bad addiction. from the sounds of it you were vulnerable and she came along an... (read in full...)

Can anyone make any sense of this???

Q.   I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...

A.   30 September 2009: thank you for all of your responses. I did get her to take a DNA test immediately after the kid was born. I did not put my name on the birth certificate and its still not on the birth certificate. Many of my friends are upset the I let her in... (read in full...)

Can anyone make any sense of this???

Q.   I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...

A.   30 September 2009: Lola1 - You hit it on the money. Sadly my friends didn't understand the situation and told me to essentially leave it alone, don't answer the door, forget about it, f her she's crazy, etc, but when I think of the kid, especially after you hold... (read in full...)

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