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Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?

Q.   I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...

A.   13 December 2008: Hi, I wouldn't beat yourself up over this. I don't think that you did anything wrong - there could be a million reasons why he cut you out ... Maybe he is taking the death of his mate hard, maybe he's trying to sort things out before going aw... (read in full...)

I Can't Be Intimate With Boyfriend, But So Much Going On In My Life

Q.   My boyfriend and I split up after over a year together. We spent far too much time together and it just got too much for both of u, so we decided it was best to spend some time apart. Now, after 9 months, we have decided to give it another go - we ...

A.   13 December 2008: Have you tried talking to your boyfriend? You need to be there for your sister, and he should understand that. It sounds like she's accepting help, but its likely to be a long uphill struggle. Talk to your friends, they'll support you :-)... (read in full...)

Went To Uni, Didn't Enjoy The Following Job, Now Where Do I Go? I'm Lost...

Q.   I did my A Levels and went to University after school, thinking I really wanted to go into one industry. I did for a few years, but really didn't enjoy it, Uni did NOT prepare me for the real world. So I left, and felt totally lost for quite s...

A.   13 December 2008: I went to Uni knowing what course I wanted but that was it. By sheer fluke I ended up working for a government organization which gave me the chance to experience a wide range of job areas and a wide range of people. I've since left them for mo... (read in full...)

What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?

Q.   What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...

A.   13 December 2008: For me, its a smile and caring / kind eyes. Masses of make up just looks wrong, a little or none is OK, but I know how women feel lost without it. Glasses . hairsyle, etc everyone has preferences so they're all not important. One thing i thi... (read in full...)

Did I do something? Why does she need space out of the blue?

Q.   In early 2007 my ex wife said she wanted space, and then ended up filing for divorce. 2007 was a bad year and I still carry round the emotional scars. I wasn't convinced that I'd fall in love, or want to let myself fall in love, again. But I did...

A.   13 December 2008: I hope it turns out well too - she's the best thing thats happened to me for ages!... (read in full...)

This relationship has me so messed up! HELP!

Q.   i really need some help im in year 12 and i had a boyfriend for 2 years who im pretty sure was my first love in the first year of our relationship we had so much fun and couldnt get enough of each other and spent all of our time together and he...

A.   13 December 2008: I don't know how much help it will be, but I think you need to sit back and look at your life. This guy may well have been your first love, but his behaviour does not sound like something you would want to build a life on. I think you need to ... (read in full...)

Did I do something? Why does she need space out of the blue?

Q.   In early 2007 my ex wife said she wanted space, and then ended up filing for divorce. 2007 was a bad year and I still carry round the emotional scars. I wasn't convinced that I'd fall in love, or want to let myself fall in love, again. But I did...

A.   13 December 2008: For various reasons they have lived separate lives in the same house since we have known each other while she was looking for somewhere to live, she has that now and is moving in before Christmas.... (read in full...)

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