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He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?

Q.   I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I ...

A.   30 January 2008: Firstly, I would start by moving your things out of his house, if you haven't already. Then I would limit the amount of time you're spending with him. In a week or so, depending, he'll realize something is up, then tell him. He's a big boy, he'll ... (read in full...)

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

Q.   Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me ...

A.   30 January 2008: She equated our relationship to Ross and Racheal (Friends) or Big and Carrie (Sex and the city). For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, it's the break up and then years later getting together. She also has asked if she could ... (read in full...)

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

Q.   Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me ...

A.   30 January 2008: For some reason, I forgot to add that there is a huge age gap between us, 8 years (I'm 30 and she's 22). This might help to clear things up. Hurt... (read in full...)

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

Q.   Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me ...

A.   30 January 2008: it suddenly occurs to me that I didn't mention there was a large age gap. sigh I forget that I'm 8 years older than her (almost to the day).... (read in full...)

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