I didn't specifically state "no lap dances", but I think it's cheating anyway...
Q. My boyfriend had a one night stand 2 years ago. I had a lot of trust issues, but I gave him a second chance! I have just found out that he has been going to lap dancing bars since this period. While we hardly set down what he can and cannot do, he ...
A. 25 September 2005: You've got 2 options here. You can either get relationship advice, and try to build your trust again, or you can walk away. If you stay in the relationship, you could end up being hurt again.
I personally would walk away, because a relationship is n... (read in full...)
Are we just together for the sake of the kids? I feel trapped in my relationship!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years now, and it feels as though I'm traped. We have two children and it feels to me as if we are together just for them. I'm begining to hate her more and more each day. Can you help?...
A. 25 September 2005: I think you should tell your girlfriend how you feel, whilst you both still have the chance to find happiness elsewhere.
Having children is not a reason for staying with someone, because in the long run, it's the children who suffer. They suff... (read in full...)
I thought "I love you" on my phone was a joke from a friend. Did I blow my chance with her?
Q. Hi I am a student and in love with another girl in my group. We always looked to each other during the lessons. One day I got a message on my phone saying I love you. I first thought it was one of my friends with some stupid joke. By the time...
A. 24 September 2005: I don't think that you have blown your chances, but you could if you tell her now that you love her. Remember, she has a boyfriend, and it wouldn't be fair for you to just jump in at the deep end. I think the best thing to do is wait.
The reas... (read in full...)
Since being pregnant, I'm totally uninterested in sex and affection...
Q. I've been seeing a lovely guy for over 2 years now. We live together and I'm now pregnant to him.(We're both 28.) The thing is, since being pregnant(now 10 weeks), I've gone completly off sex/affection/kissing etc. Now I'm worried cos I don't wa...
A. 24 September 2005: I have been in exactly the same situation, and trust me, it is just your hormones. Pregnancy is very exhausting, and with a little one already, your days are hetic. Take time to reassure your partner. Make sure he knows how your feeling, and that ... (read in full...)
My friend is depressed. What can I do to help?
Q. Hi, My friend is really depressed at the moment and she has been to the doctors. They said it was something to do with her hormones, but I'm worried about her. Sometimes she just wants to burst into tears. What can I do to help her?...
A. 24 September 2005: That's a really difficult question, because without experiencing the problems that have caused your friends depression, you can never really know how to help.
My advice would be that you are there for her 100%. Listen to her, and let her know that... (read in full...)
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