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I really just want help with my wife. I love her, she is my best friend, she is beautiful, a great mother, the whole package. However, I want to have sex with her and her sex drive is lower than mine. It's not terrible but I want more and I want to be able to read her signs. I do everything that she tells me she needs and I get no results. I go to sleep so many nights frustrated; not knowing what I did/didn't do; not knowing how I misread the signs so badly. She doesn't care b/c she says our sex frequency is normal compared to other people. She may be right but that doesn't help me on the nights I'm left wondering what went wrong.

For the men, do you like it when a girl sucks on your balls during a bj?

Q.   This is kinda a question that is towards men, but do you like it when a girl sucks on your sack when your girlfriend is giving u a blowjob? Thank god for anonymous lol ...

A.   10 July 2009: Absolutely, and the anonymous response below me is right . . . very, very right:)... (read in full...)

Pregnancy and oral sex

Q.   Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) ...

A.   8 July 2009: If you want him to go down on you, just ask him. I love going down on my wife and I know if she ever asked for it, it would be a huge turn on and I would be at it in no time! Just make sure you do it in the heat of the moment and ask it with some ... (read in full...)

I'm mis-reading my wife's signs, what am I missing here??

Q.   I can't read my wife's signs. I get home the other day and she heads upstairs to put the kids to bed. Just before leaving the room, she tells me (and shows me) that she doesn't have any underwear on. After the kids are in bed, she takes a bath. ...

A.   8 July 2009: Ok, I'm getting a lot of similar answers. I need to be more direct with my desires. I guess I felt that my 2 hour massage of her body was enough but what I'm gathering is that I need to be even more direct. I guess I got so caught up in wanting ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it?

Q.   My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it? What should we do during so it's not phone sex and not like watching porn? Due to work sometimes we have to be apart for a few weeks at a time and I really want to ...

A.   7 July 2009: Try easing into it. Start using the webcam as a form of foreplay. If you have 2 computers in the same house when you are together, use the webcam while in separate rooms as a form of foreplay. You want to see him masturbate and I would be ... (read in full...)

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