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How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   21 September 2014: Alright I apologize to women here, even if being the initiator is the natural order of things, as in its what the man was meant to do, I just wish that ability came natural and instinctive for me, because it seems most guys are born knowing how to ... (read in full...)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

Q.   If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...

A.   21 September 2014: I started seeking out a Dating Coach... (read in full...)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

Q.   If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...

A.   14 September 2014: Well if what you are saying is really true llifton, as in a lot of women not minding at all if a guy is still a virgin or never been in a relationship before(even regardless of age?), just repeating that to myself over and over I feel could do ... (read in full...)

Why is inexperience worse for men than for women?

Q.   Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around? why is it that if a guy is a virgin and never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or ...

A.   14 September 2014: if the guy is over 30 or over 40 and still inexperienced with dating and sex, then i'm sure the odds will be completely or severely against him.... (read in full...)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

Q.   If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...

A.   14 September 2014: you make it sound like as if a man can be over 30, over 40, over 50 and never had a girlfriend and still a virgin, and he would still be able to attract a woman into his life, be able to get a girlfriend, even one of the anonymous female users even ... (read in full...)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

Q.   If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...

A.   13 September 2014: ya but its far more likely a woman will be turned off by a virgin man, a guy who's never had a girlfriend than the other way around, especially when the person is past a certain age, that's a fact... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   13 September 2014: I also never understood why lack of experience turns women off more than the other way around, recently asked a question similar to that today ... (read in full...)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

Q.   If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...

A.   13 September 2014: Why should I forgive women who dated and hooked up with bad boys? And if she is looking for a stable life, sounds like she only wants me for my money and resources... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   13 September 2014: When I say being the initiator, I'm referring to making the first move, approaching someone for the first time and starting a conversation, asking out on a date, but ya often times I feel unmotivated to take action because I'm too damn depressed and ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   12 September 2014: So testosterone is the hormonal excuse for being the initiator? Ya i guess thats part of life not being fair in which guys have to make the first move... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   12 September 2014: But overall why is confidence so damn attractive to women? is there any logic behind it?... (read in full...)

Im 34 and have never had a boyfriend, what the hell am I doing wrong!!!?

Q.   I'm 34 and have never had a boyfriend. I have a very good full-time job, a lucrative business on the side, spend a lot on my clothes, hair and appearance, have interesting hobbies, read newspapers and books, go to the gym and generally take care of ...

A.   12 September 2014: this changes my perspective somewhat, didn't think there would be this many women who are still single as in always have been around this age, I guess men vent about their virginity or constantly single more than women do... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   10 September 2014: well glad to hear that some women out there make the first move, I knew and I believed already that some women do before I posted this question, but the harsh reality is that those type of women are very extremely hardcore rare, and the deep meaning ... (read in full...)

Do you think there are more male FA's(forever alones) than female FA's, more male virgins out there than female virgins?

Q.   and obviously I include more male late bloomers than female late bloomers, as in people that are like 25+ years of age and still a virgin or never dated, never had a boyfriend/girlfriend before, because that's what it seems like from searching on ...

A.   9 September 2014: Well very glad to hear that Cereberus, makes me feel like it is not hopeless for me, now it's just a matter of keeping that negative feeling out of my head... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   8 September 2014: Even if women drop hints to let men know they are interested, I don't know and can't tell what they are specifically, I am either not noticing them or I don't get them at all, but yes I am aware of the fact women do not owe me anything, I can accept ... (read in full...)

Do you think there are more male FA's(forever alones) than female FA's, more male virgins out there than female virgins?

Q.   and obviously I include more male late bloomers than female late bloomers, as in people that are like 25+ years of age and still a virgin or never dated, never had a boyfriend/girlfriend before, because that's what it seems like from searching on ...

A.   8 September 2014: @Cerberus, how bad is your relatives case of Asperger's? You said low functioning in terms of social interaction, because I don't know what my case is, and I'm worried that if mine is low functioning it will make it impossible for me to improve my ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   7 September 2014: And my gut feeling tells me there are more male late bloomers than female late bloomers in the world of dating and relationships, sex, as in people 25+ years of age who are still a virgin and never been in a bf/gf relationship before... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   7 September 2014: Well its just I feel social awkwardness or being socially inept hurts a guys chances more than a girls chances of getting a date or relationship, I don't enjoy feeling bitterness or hatred towards women, no not at all, I want to respect them, its ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

Q.   How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

A.   6 September 2014: ya, well having Asperger Syndrome does not help at all either, although I don't want to feel it is hopeless because of having Asperger Syndrome, and I have attended my share of Asperger meet-ups, but sadly they are male-dominated, and the women I ... (read in full...)

How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start looking for a relationship

Q.   How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start looking for a relationship. 25? 30? 35? I mean, to really just START! Never had a girlfriend, never been on a date before, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due ...

A.   6 September 2014: Can't help but be so jealous and envious of people that got experience in the 18-25 age range... (read in full...)

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