Am I being selfish for wanting to start a family?
Q. My husband and I have been marred for five months. He is in gradschool and I'm work. We dated for 8 years before our wedding. I would like to have a baby but, he don't want one until schools done and he has a good job. That's like in five years. T...
A. 23 October 2010: You have plenty of time to start a family when he is out of school. Your impatience seems kind of immature. You have to think of what's best for you as a married couple, not just what you want. ... (read in full...)
I'm really afraid that I will go back to him, which is the last thing I want.
Q. I was finally able to end very emotionally abusive relationship. I'm not saying it wasn't any of my fault--I still blame myself for being an enabler and not setting any boundaries with him. He stalked me for a while afterwards and while I thin...
A. 23 October 2010: It sounds like you are depressed. Is your therapy addressing that?
Your self-esteem probably took a major blow while you were in this relationship. Try to work on building it back up. Can you do some volunteer work? That can help get your mind off ... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife to show me affection again!
Q. I just returned from a deployment from iraq. my wife had an affair with another woman. I have forgiven her for the infidelity but now she will not have sex with me. The other woman is now trying to get my wife to leave me by laying these games. ...
A. 23 October 2010: It sounds like when you were gone the other woman filled the vacuum of your absence... Your wife has become intimate in both a physical and emotional sense with this woman, and it's going to take a lot of work to get past this, not just you ... (read in full...)
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