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Why do men marry women that aren't anything like what they look at in porn?

Q.   Well i have been confused about this for years. My husband dose this and other guys do this and i believe other girls do this. I have put on some weight through the years after i have had my kids and even before then i wasn't skinny but i was mu...

A.   12 May 2012: So dose this mean we are not enough as women? Or that i need to unsewrstand there is some lying on what he wants in a women and that its just that they want there cake and eat it and us women are supised to understand and blame ourselves for them ... (read in full...)

I need fashion help badly!

Q.   I have never been real fashion trendy. I guess you can say i am more of a tom boy. I have wanted to be more style trendy since mom family is but i guess it skipped me. I am married and money has been tight so i don"t buy clothes for me unless i...

A.   3 April 2012: Thank you so much for all the helpful hints. I have been working on what you all have said. Thanks!... (read in full...)

I need fashion help badly!

Q.   I have never been real fashion trendy. I guess you can say i am more of a tom boy. I have wanted to be more style trendy since mom family is but i guess it skipped me. I am married and money has been tight so i don"t buy clothes for me unless i...

A.   28 March 2012: thanks i appreciate all you comments and it makes sense. I have been looking at fashion magazines and i have them mailed to my house but then i look at them and get so over whelmed and then when i try things on my eyes automatically look and see ... (read in full...)

How can I become my husband's best friend?

Q.   i have been married 14 year and the first couple of years were good but then i got insecure and snooped and as he says i was controlling him for a long time. I have been going to counseling but haven't quite been there the last couple months b...

A.   7 January 2012: is this why he has a ashley madison account? am i the reason why he has it? will he stop when i get better? how do i become trust worthy and have him see it and believe it? am i going up a hill to find out i will never make it? ... (read in full...)

How can I become my husband's best friend?

Q.   i have been married 14 year and the first couple of years were good but then i got insecure and snooped and as he says i was controlling him for a long time. I have been going to counseling but haven't quite been there the last couple months b...

A.   7 January 2012: thank you for your honesty and you are right. I will do what you say. how do i become trust worthy and have him see it and believe it? Will he ever see that i have changed or am i always going up a hill and never getting anywhere? ... (read in full...)

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