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Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone?

Q.   Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone, or a right way? I reconnected with an ex-boyfriend over facebook, and we've been dating steadily for the past 3 months. We have a lot of common interests and get along well, but I am not physical...

A.   24 January 2010: So I did it. Called him and said I loved him ... but only as a friend. That he deserved to be loved - but I wasn't the one. He had to get off the phone right away. So I destroyed him, and am going to need lots of Ben & Jerrys to get over feeling ... (read in full...)

I want a second date but don't want to be a stalker chick!

Q.   I had one date with this guy - in early August. We played phone tag until Sept. 8. He'd leave me a voicemail, I'd call back and leave another voicemail. We just couldn't seem to connect. He used a company cell phone, then he quit his job. He must ...

A.   30 September 2009: Well, my dears, it seems all of my agonizing over these past two months were for naught. The college prof. is VERY interested in me. He finally read the e-mail I sent to his college address, and called me right away. He said he was tearing his hair ... (read in full...)

I want a second date but don't want to be a stalker chick!

Q.   I had one date with this guy - in early August. We played phone tag until Sept. 8. He'd leave me a voicemail, I'd call back and leave another voicemail. We just couldn't seem to connect. He used a company cell phone, then he quit his job. He must ...

A.   28 September 2009: The whole story: I did e-mail him at his college e-mail address last week and reiterated my phone number. However, I don't think he's much of an e-mail or social networking type. I just need closure or an answer of some type. I am wildly attr... (read in full...)

Am I being too cautious, or is he just a jerk using me as a plan B?

Q.   I asked a question last month about a 38-year-old guy whom I had a great first date with, but he talked (near the end of the date) about a hot 24-year-old who dumped him. Yep, he talked about another chick, on our first date. I'm 35. One week...

A.   9 September 2009: Thanks for all your feedback. You made a lot of good points, and have saved me from making a doormat out of myself ... again! I deleted his message and phone number out of my cell phone, and will run the other way if he calls or tries to see me. I ... (read in full...)

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