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How would you feel if your fiance talks a lot about a female co-worker? Should I be concerned?

Q.   Well, I'm back. I've posted on here about this issue before and it doesn't seem to be getting resolved. I know this is a long post. So bear with me on that. I didn't intend for it to be. Kudos to anyone that can finish reading it. Thank you. ...

A.   21 July 2013: He is having his Cake and eating it too. He is "testing the waters" so to speak with this divorced colleage. He is no doubt having an emotional affair with her and it has not progressed (for whatever reason) to a physical affair. I would lay it o... (read in full...)

He's living with his mistress and driving her SUV only 2 weeks of leaving our home.

Q.   I had my husband of 15 years to move out of our home because I discovered more evidence that he's having an affair. He moved out, but refuses to talk to me about anything. He's been doing this every time I try to talk to him. The isolation from our ...

A.   21 July 2013: Infidelity is tough, I know from experience. Sadly, you won't be able to stop your kids from being around her. They have a right to c their dad. Sadly, she will be a part of that picture too. Just hold your head up and know that no matter what, ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has a bad temper, what should I do

Q.   I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 26. We live together and most of the time we get along very well. However, my boyfriend is extremely touchy and if I say the "wrong" thing to him he gets very angry very fast. For example: Today my boyfriend and I ...

A.   21 July 2013: Honestly, RUN, Run fast and never look back. He is a ticking time bomb, volcano waiting to erupt. Your relationship will evolve from the verbal and emotional abuse you are experiencing now to physical abuse, even DEATH!!!!!!! Imagine what he will ... (read in full...)

We both have partners but I really like him, am I living in a fantasy world or should I make a move on this guy?

Q.   I am in a relationship that is going nowhere. My partner, though a good father to our child is a non violent alcoholic whom is emotionally abusive. Though I love him, I don't believe I am in love with him anymore. A few months back I met a man ...

A.   12 September 2011: Hi. Again. I have decided not to pursue this "fantasy.". Actualy now that games are through for the season I probably won't even see him anymore. Shame though. I really feel that he could have been the one. Although I felt that about my ... (read in full...)

He says I'm immature and selfish. Am I being unreasonable by being upset that his family exclude me from family events but invite his ex?

Q.   Hi. I have been involved with my boyfriend for 13 years now and we have one child. He has been divorced for the past 14 years. The problem is his ex wife. My boyfriend has refused to marry me in the past citing his family doesn't like me. Aft...

A.   7 September 2011: Thanks to everyone who responded. For years I have been told to leave this person and have not. I know his family does not like me, but I think he exaggerates the conflict to draw the line so to speak between them and me. There is really not much ... (read in full...)

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