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Why do these girls act the way that they do?

Q.   What are these girls problems? Am I overreacting? So I've liked this really sweet and cute guy for a while now. We talk abit and hang out sometimes but we are both so quiet and shy around eachother. Anyway, 2 of his girly friends have ...

A.   13 May 2013: Even best friends can feel threatened by the possible beginning of a relationship for you. Your new love interest means that you won't be able to give her the same amount of attention that you've been giving her thus far, and since you'll be ... (read in full...)

I went to an all boys school and consequently feel clueless with women

Q.   My early education till getting an engineering diploma was basically in an all boys education establishment. I guess that makes me very shy and clueless when it comes to the ladies. So far at my age of 21, I only asked a girl twice and got asked ou...

A.   13 May 2013: Whoa nelly there anonymous respondent! There is a variety of different types of women out there. There is nothing wrong with shy guys. When a woman says no, do not be pushy, no means no. Also, not all women need to be dominated to feel secure. ... (read in full...)

Why do these girls act the way that they do?

Q.   What are these girls problems? Am I overreacting? So I've liked this really sweet and cute guy for a while now. We talk abit and hang out sometimes but we are both so quiet and shy around eachother. Anyway, 2 of his girly friends have ...

A.   13 May 2013: These girls certainly sound a bit dodgy, sounds to me like this fellow has got groupies. They- or at least one of them - probably have a crush on him as well. They see you as a threat and want to alienate you and talk trash about him to you t... (read in full...)

I found out my boyfriend was having phone sex

Q.   Dear Readers, I am so very confused... I found out my boyfriend of 3 years was having phone sex with a mutual friend of ours for the first 6 months of our relationship. I know they were never physically intimate and what I hate the most is ...

A.   13 May 2013: In my opinion phone sex is no different from pornography- that is when it is done via one of those sleezy agencies that advertise through the television and cost money. The fact that he was doing this with a mutual friend of yours is unsettli... (read in full...)

How can I compete? My boyfriend chooses marijuana over me.

Q.   So my fiance and partner of 11 years had told me outright that marijuana is more important to his life than me. We have both smoked recreationally since before we met, but lately he has taken it to a whole new level. Over the many years that ...

A.   7 May 2013: There was much discussion, but nothing was resolved. He has managed to convince himself that he is the way he is because while I was working and going to school I wasn't spending enough time with him and that's why his substance abuse has ... (read in full...)

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