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What's your opinion of my plan to meet my online guy?

Q.   Dear Friends, I have been talking with this guy I meet online for almost 8 months. We talk online and on the phone, it has become a habit for us to talk daily. I have very strong feelings for him and we only live about 2 hours apart. I love him, I k...

A.   28 July 2005: Firstly are you sure it's love?! I understand that you get on well with this guy but many men who prey on young women do tend to have daily contact with them for several months before the meeting point. Why don't you get him to come to you for your ... (read in full...)

He's made his decision to leave our relationship, but I can't stop the stress I'm feeling!

Q.   I thought my relationship was a great one until while my boyfriend was working on a ship found a Hungarian woman to be unfaithful with. Thing is he has made his decision to leave me for her but I can't seem to let go of my love for him. THe day ...

A.   27 July 2005: As much as a difficult situation this is you really have to try and move on for the sake of yourself. I know things like this are pretty tough but it will take time. Try to get your friends round for a night in together or go out and have a good ... (read in full...)

My lesbian partner took advantage of our open relationship for sex with a man...

Q.   My girlfriend and I have a great open relationship. It's open because we're experimenting with the whole lesbian thing. We share the shame interests and values. When we met we made a pact that we would wait to have sex with each other as well as ...

A.   26 July 2005: You have every right in being upset that she wont talk. If it is an open relationship that you have agreed with then you really cannot be mad at her. Is there a possibility that she could like men more?! If so then why dont you talk to her about ... (read in full...)

His reaction to my assault was unsypathetic and hurt me a lot. Should I give him another chance?

Q.   Hi, I feel that my question somewhat difficult to answer and I know the answer ultimately has to from me but I think that it'd really help to get a couple of alternative perspectives on the matter. I have recently returned from working abroad. ...

A.   26 July 2005: Firstly I want you to know how sorry I am to hear of your attack. It is such an evil thing to do to anyone. News like this will affect everyone in different ways. Men quite often feel to blame for their partners being on there own and them not ... (read in full...)

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