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Is this selfish of her or am I overeacting?

Q.   Do you think it's selfish of my best friend to buy a new dress to go out clubbing for my birthday (On Saturday) when she knows very well I'm only going to be wearing black pants and a nice top? I DON'T wear dresses, period. She knows that. OH she ...

A.   18 September 2009: p.s And I want all my friends to look hot. I even took my other best friend out to buy a new outfit because she had nothing fancy to wear. And she even asked me FIRST what I was wearing before she decided. I said she could wear what she wanted and I ... (read in full...)

Is this selfish of her or am I overeacting?

Q.   Do you think it's selfish of my best friend to buy a new dress to go out clubbing for my birthday (On Saturday) when she knows very well I'm only going to be wearing black pants and a nice top? I DON'T wear dresses, period. She knows that. OH she ...

A.   18 September 2009: eyeswide open and marriedlady. I said before it's not about the dress! It's about the fact that she's making this all about herself and doesn't even care how I feel. I think she knows I'm not comfortable with it, but she ignores that. I would never ... (read in full...)

How do I help him to realize I AM different - so we can have a functional relationship, which at the moment he is unsure of?

Q.   I've recently starting dating this great guy last Sunday (almost 2 weeks. We've been talking since the end of Nov). We've seen each other almost every day since then. I've connected with him so well right off the bat better than most other me...

A.   24 December 2007: Well he called me last night. Said he feeling really crappy (had a really bad headache) and went straight to bed after work. I already had plans to go out and he just wanted to rest so we agreed to get together later. He called me just now to tell ... (read in full...)

How do I help him to realize I AM different - so we can have a functional relationship, which at the moment he is unsure of?

Q.   I've recently starting dating this great guy last Sunday (almost 2 weeks. We've been talking since the end of Nov). We've seen each other almost every day since then. I've connected with him so well right off the bat better than most other me...

A.   22 December 2007: "Well then if you know he likes you why do you have to prove anything to him??? Maybe I don't understand the question..." So he'll want to have a relationship with me. We are just dating now, that's all. However I called him today (been a fe... (read in full...)

How do I help him to realize I AM different - so we can have a functional relationship, which at the moment he is unsure of?

Q.   I've recently starting dating this great guy last Sunday (almost 2 weeks. We've been talking since the end of Nov). We've seen each other almost every day since then. I've connected with him so well right off the bat better than most other me...

A.   21 December 2007: I know he likes me. He told me himself and he wouldn't ask to see me as often as he does if he didn't. Nor would he have shared such personal details about himself and his life. Now I do agree with the advice about not pressuring, whic... (read in full...)

How do I help him to realize I AM different - so we can have a functional relationship, which at the moment he is unsure of?

Q.   I've recently starting dating this great guy last Sunday (almost 2 weeks. We've been talking since the end of Nov). We've seen each other almost every day since then. I've connected with him so well right off the bat better than most other me...

A.   21 December 2007: I need to clarify. It usually takes me a while to know if a like a guy but it did not take very long with this guy. We just connected that well. And maybe getting some professional help would be good for other people however not for me thanks. I've ... (read in full...)

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