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I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...

Q.   I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...

A.   23 June 2009: Thank you everyone SO much...I had to submit this question a few times, because DearCupid kept rejecting it. This has helped clear my conscience a lot, and I have also been reading a lot online about predators like that...and I am beginnin... (read in full...)

How do we strengthen our relationship?

Q.   So me and my boyfriend have been together for four wonderful drama free months - at least until now. before I got with him I had a lot of guy friends and was a big flirt. but since then I've stopped flirting with them and made it known that I wanna ...

A.   22 January 2009: I want to say right now that a problem for some part is only as big as you make it, and if you constantly stress over it you will give the impression to him and others that there IS something going on when in reality there isn't. Let it go if th... (read in full...)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

Q.   Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

A.   18 January 2009: Oh yes, you posted another question about Stonehenge which mentioned that he was a history teacher.... (read in full...)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

Q.   Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

A.   18 January 2009: Mutantkitten, I agree with you. I am merely suggesting ways of letting her be academically closer to him. Kitty_3, if you're asking things about schoolwork, he will not get creeped out. It is very normal for students to ask about assignme... (read in full...)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

Q.   Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

A.   18 January 2009: Ah ok, he's a history teacher. If he gives handouts, read over it very carefully and mark out places where you would like to discuss with him, and be more genuinely interested in it than most students would be. Please do not fake anything though, ... (read in full...)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

Q.   Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

A.   18 January 2009: What subject does he teach?... (read in full...)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

Q.   Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...

A.   17 January 2009: Offer to help him after class, ask RELEVANT questions in his class, stop by once in a while to ask him about something going on in his class, thank him for anything he has done, ask him about innocent things, and above all, be a good student.... (read in full...)

How can I keep my teacher in my life?

Q.   Ok well first off I will refer to my teacher as Mr. Chemistry because it's less confusing for me that way. Anyway, I have had this teacher for several years now and he is also my class advisor. We have grown pretty close and I spend almost eve...

A.   17 January 2009: I'm sure many of us have stories to share, but you have posted this question as anonymous, and without your username, we cannot send you messages.... (read in full...)

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