My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 6 July 2009: IceLordess Yes everyone seems almost relaxed with the situation now..its a total relief I almost feel if there is something missing,..an anticlimax... Thanks for your kind words ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 1 July 2009: IceLordess
The relief is incredible...ok very emotional at first but know she knows we can talk about it....
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My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 29 June 2009: update:
Told my wife ....v emotional
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My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 11 June 2009: Thanks anonymous...i needed that....
I also just want to say i didnt actively intend to cheat...shit happens....
I also feel people grow apart over the years and other things/people become more important to them...they change ...things ch... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 26 May 2009: Thanks Icelordess....your comments and Anonymous's REALLY have helped me here.....Just hope my wife is as understanding... (read in full...)
My wife or the love of my life? How do I choose?
Q. hello everyone. as my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non- hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway ...
A. 26 May 2009: Mate, I empathise totally with you here...you described my situation totally !!
I am struggling with the idea of hurting my wife, for having not left years ago, but i too love her but not in the way I love the woman I have met. Its a breath of fres... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 26 May 2009: Thanks again I will update you ..I have decided to tell my wife everyting...explain I am no longer the man she married, I have grown apart from her, through no fault of hers, and must move on with my life the way i see it should be. A tough ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 25 May 2009: Thanks anonymous female......
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My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 21 May 2009: You know what ..Im tired of listening to you people berate me for something I never actively intended to do. Life is life...shit happens...people get hurt. Things happen for a reason
This is a site for helping people with their problems NOT acti... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 20 May 2009: Yeah i guess so...shoulda doneit years ago...
Thanks Lilly...useful advice........ (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 18 May 2009: I am a man, I have balls and I make decsions on the basis of facts AND consider the consequences. Some of you seem to ignore my happiness in this ? Any reason why? Do i not deserve to live my life the way I want too ???? Surely we only have on... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 15 May 2009: I agree I have been an asshole...I can turn back the clock...I am going to tell my wife everything I will then let her decide what she wants to do........ (read in full...)
Unhappily married man in love with a married woman
Q. I have been with my wife for 14 years (married for 12 years). Our marriage started out like every other marriage......we had fun, sex, etc. As the years passed my feelings towards her have changed. We don't have sex anymore (for reasons we won't ...
A. 14 May 2009: Have a look at my question and the responses I got...... (read in full...)
Unhappily married man in love with a married woman
Q. I have been with my wife for 14 years (married for 12 years). Our marriage started out like every other marriage......we had fun, sex, etc. As the years passed my feelings towards her have changed. We don't have sex anymore (for reasons we won't ...
A. 14 May 2009: Man my situation is exactly the same as yours..except Im older
I cant help you decide mate but what I believe is ...its your happiness that is paramount ...do whatever you have to to achieve it or you may live regretting you didnt do it the rest... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 14 May 2009: McCool you are 100% right...I have also noticed most feamles side with feamles when it comes to leaving their spouses.
You Icelordess and Lilly are the only ones who have given constructive criticism/advice.
Gina i think u are a hypocrit bec... (read in full...)
My wife wants to move back in, but I am having an affair behind her back!
Q. Hi There Please help me do the right thing Im a married man, 52 years old, who lives apart from his wife (due to work) I actually live in a different country most of the time and only see her and my 18 and 21 year old sons aproximately 4 time...
A. 13 May 2009: Thank you all for your contributions.
Those that berated me...no problem but you try living in a dump for 6 years because the country u lived in collapsed without female company. Living alone is difficult in the 1st world far less the 3rd.
Dont ... (read in full...)
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