Should I break up with her or should I forgive her again?
Q. hallo, I'm kind of confused. I have a gal for four years now and it seems each year, she has an affair and call me lucky but I always find out about it. well, now it's a couple of weeks into the year and I happen to have the password to her email ...
A. 9 January 2009: I would leave her. It seems to me that she is doing it because you forgive her...she has no real consequences to her actions. Who will it be next year? Your brother?... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 6 January 2009: Gettingmarriedsoon: I'm glad you had a good week and a fun New Years. Was the counseling something you came up with or did someone recommend that you go? I've been trying to get my husband into therapy and couple's counseling for years, and he ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 5 January 2009: Gettingmarriedsoon: Thank you again for the advice. I will see if I can find a copy of that movie in this rinkydink town...We actually have had a great week! His parents have been out of town of course, so that helps. They return tomorrow and I ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 28 December 2008: Empathizer, I am glad that you are learning from my experience...at least someone is. I don't know that i am strong enough to leave...I want to believe that he will be what I him to be...even tho the hope of that is getting less and less. We ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 26 December 2008: Empathizer,
His abandonment issues are a little different than most. He never had a dad around because his mom was a control freak and never told him that she was pregnant...he didn't even know he had a son until my husband was 18, she called him ... (read in full...)
Are there any support groups for females like me?
Q. my husband and i are thinking about including another female in our relationship. is there anyone that this has worked for? every thing i have ever heard or read the husband leaves the wife for the new female. also are there any support groups for ...
A. 24 December 2008: If you want to have the sexual encounter with a woman go for it. I think most men would agree that he is one of the most lucky men alive! ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 24 December 2008: To the Empathizer: since you seem to be on the other side of a very similar situation, is there anything that your wife could have done or said to you to wake you up and make you realize Oh wow! I've been a complete and total ass!? Is there ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 24 December 2008: RCN: you are absolutely right. Wow... I've never had it put to me quite like that. So how do I make him see it? This is the problem that I am having. I know that I have a messed up marriage and a very unhealthy relationship with my husband...my ... (read in full...)
Are there any support groups for females like me?
Q. my husband and i are thinking about including another female in our relationship. is there anyone that this has worked for? every thing i have ever heard or read the husband leaves the wife for the new female. also are there any support groups for ...
A. 23 December 2008: How long have you been married? I know of a couple that are considered swingers. They are perfectly happy and he has no intention of leaving his wife for any of the other woman. He says that he doesn't have to cheat on his wife because he can ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 23 December 2008: Nothing real significant has happened, I am just at the point of making a really hard decision. He says that if I leave that's it. I left him once before and he can't go through it again. I have to make the decision to leave him knowing that ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 23 December 2008: To the man that empathises: I don't quite understand what you mean...by me not enjoying myself he will change? He knows that his behavior hurts me...he will still yell and scream as I am crying. By this point he is usually yelling telling me to ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 22 December 2008: To the man that empathizes with my husband, thank you for your imput and I hope that you and your wife are able to work things out. I hope that you are able to get your anger under control. My husband will not go to counseling and thinks he is ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 19 December 2008: To Fade878: Thank you very much for your post. You hit the nail on the head with him needing to deal with his anger issues and his insecurities, and the sense of abandonment...wow. He didn't meet his real father til he was 18. His mom was a bit ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's being such a jerk and I can't deal with it!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have had some rough patches in our relationship...it actually started when we had only been together for about 6 months. He started to get really possessive and jealous about stupid things. ...
A. 19 December 2008: To EyesWideOpen: thank you very much for your post. I have been considering it, however we tried it, like I said before, he says if we do it again it will just be a divorce. I take it as kind of a threat from his end because he knows how much I ... (read in full...)
Ladies please answer: He's 19 years younger is it ok to bring sex into the relationship?
Q. I have a good relationship with a younger man who is 19 years younger than I am. It is ok to consider sex in our relationship? The age thing won’t get in the way? Ladies please respond. Should an older woman have sex with a younger man? Any...
A. 19 December 2008: This is comming from a younger woman. It really depends on how old he is...if he is under 23 then it's probably not a good idea...you will just confuse him, give him the best sex ever, and he will fall for you and follow you around for the rest of ... (read in full...)
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