Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?
Q. Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...
A. 26 November 2015: Thank you, everyone! Your very thoughtful, insightful and wise advise was confirmation of what I needed to do. I let him know that we are not meant for each other and that we should move one.
Your wise advice could have saved me from more heartbre... (read in full...)
Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...
A. 25 November 2015: You don't deserve that treatment! You know that you need to leave him. The more you procrastinate, the more time it will take to meet someone who actually deserves you.
It is hard, and you may not like change. It will be better for you in the e... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have no sex appeal?
Q. Why aren't guys attracted to me? Guys never approach but they are always approaching other women, all types. Is it possible to have NO sex appeal? I could be lacking an inate appeal that women supposedly have. What do men look for?...
A. 1 September 2009: No, I don't feel unattractive. That's the thing.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have no sex appeal?
Q. Why aren't guys attracted to me? Guys never approach but they are always approaching other women, all types. Is it possible to have NO sex appeal? I could be lacking an inate appeal that women supposedly have. What do men look for?...
A. 1 September 2009: Thanks for the responses.... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...
A. 28 July 2008: ChiRaven is exactly right. GOD has a way of working things out for those who have been oppressed. I was teased mercily in high school, to the point where I have been to thearpy for it. But after high school, GOD allowed me to have some wonderful ... (read in full...)
A love story to lighten the mood!!!
Q. Hey all! I just wanted to share my love story with you all to lighten the mood, as it's all about help on here i thought it would be nice to have a chat about something nice, but try to keep it brief lol. In Feb i made a return home to australia for ...
A. 25 July 2008: That is so romantic! It's nice to hear something good that happened to someone and that someone has found love. Thanks for sharing!... (read in full...)
I'm Attractive, but Guys Don't Notice
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me out with something. I don't know what it is, but guys just don't notice me. I'm told that I am attractive, I have been in pageants, was a NFL cheerleader and modeled. Not saying that to brag, but I want you to kind...
A. 21 July 2008: "A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008):"
The purpose of this website is to offer truthful, non combative. Having said that, all of the other people who responded really helped me with my situation and brought forth a diffent perspect... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: Sugar Cookie, you're response was very offensive. I am slim and have been teased and riduculed for it. Why do people have to put down slim women in order to lift up others? And yes, there is still something to hold onto when your slim - has ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to leave and what are the odds that my eldest son will change his tune about me?
Q. 50 year old specialed. school teacher. 2 grown sons.And...a extremely verbal abusive, emotional, mental, and sometimes push/shove type of physical abuse. Tired of it. It's affecting my health. My emotional state and self concept has always been ...
A. 19 July 2008: Sorry that you are going through so much trouble with your sons. People should have nothing but honor and respect for their parents, and when they don't, it is ashame. Your pastor and doctor are right! You deserve to be around people who treat you ... (read in full...)
I'm married. Would one afternoon of extra-martial passion be THAT wrong?
Q. I've been married nine years and have kids. Sex is not as adventurous as I'd like but things are fine. Better than fine. I Iove my wife and enjoy a wonderful family life. Then I go and get drunk at a conference and have some sexy action with a woman ...
A. 15 July 2008: Yes, VERY wrong.... (read in full...)
I want answers from real women about parenthood!
Q. Hey girls( andblokes without sonding too sexixt)! I'm in a dilemma at this point in my life. You see, I really think that I might want a baby. Im 26, have a great career(well okay career- I'm a family planning nurse-the irony!), loving partner, ...
A. 12 July 2008: Yes, I have the same feelings as you. I am 35 and have had a lot of unique and amazing experiences and still am. Experiences that are once in a lifetime. I feel that it is important to fulfill your hearts desires and dreams while the time is right ... (read in full...)
I really could use some help at the moment and she let me down!
Q. Hello everyone, I've been having a really hard time lately. My Dad had a serious operation and isn't recovering so well. The doctors say he's going to be fine but I feel sick with worry. Also I recently lost my job and need to borrow some mone...
A. 11 July 2008: Sorry that you are going through such a hard time. This is a good indication of your girlfriends character and her ability to be the loving, caring and compassionate person that you deserve.... (read in full...)
I'm Attractive, but Guys Don't Notice
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me out with something. I don't know what it is, but guys just don't notice me. I'm told that I am attractive, I have been in pageants, was a NFL cheerleader and modeled. Not saying that to brag, but I want you to kind...
A. 8 July 2008: Anon, are you a therapist?lol If not, you should be.... (read in full...)
I'm Attractive, but Guys Don't Notice
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me out with something. I don't know what it is, but guys just don't notice me. I'm told that I am attractive, I have been in pageants, was a NFL cheerleader and modeled. Not saying that to brag, but I want you to kind...
A. 8 July 2008: "A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008)"
Anonymous, thank you for your insightful comment! I really don't think that I'm too attractive. Like you, I'm a miniority and I dress a bit conseratively. I am also slim with not a lot of curve... (read in full...)
I'm Attractive, but Guys Don't Notice
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me out with something. I don't know what it is, but guys just don't notice me. I'm told that I am attractive, I have been in pageants, was a NFL cheerleader and modeled. Not saying that to brag, but I want you to kind...
A. 7 July 2008: Thanks for all of your helful comments. Lazyguy, age is not the issue. Most people think that I'm in my early 20's and as I said, older, much older than me get noticed. That's not the issue, the issue is me.
I was bullied in school because ... (read in full...)
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