My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!
Q. When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I...
A. 13 February 2014: Yes, I didn't suck strangers dick without protection risking STD. I had a casual sex with single girls who I knew already. I never had casual sex with someone taken. Don't compare me to that level.
And I have worked for money, I struggled with fam... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!
Q. When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I...
A. 13 February 2014: Really, so its all about trusting HER?
Ok.
Also, I've concluded I would loose my nerve with this girl, she's ignorantly liberal, she supports single motherhood, promiscuity, drugs, prostitution, whatever, and this is where we part our way, but... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!
Q. When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I...
A. 13 February 2014: You don't bring that to this topic. Its all about her comfort, its all about her, and I need help, yes, sure... Stick to the topic. A repeat, she said she would be bothered if I were in her position, did you not read what I wrote?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a male roommate but the issue was that she lied about it!
Q. When girlfriend was moving to college, she had to pick a place/apartment in consensus with her parents. I always got a bit nauseus before that, when thinking about possibility that she might get a male roommate. Somehow, instinctively, I...
A. 12 February 2014: No, I wouldn't react dramatically. I'd maybe share a view or two, or would wanted to know why she can't choose a different circumstances, but it seems she just doesn't want to waste energy discussing what would potentially bother me. Regarding ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 19 January 2014: Fighting an impossible battle with exact thing now. Though we're not married, so because she's only my girlfriend, objectively I have less "right" to obsess. But this is really such insane torture, tremble of inner being, I never knew this can even ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: " The "it didn't mean anything" might as well be the title of the Cheater National Anthem. "
Actually, thats exactly what said about her ONS when she first disclosed the info. "But it didn't mean anything to me, I promise". ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: YouWish,
Because she doesn't regret it, and I do. Because I had performance issues in such cases. Because women and men are not hardwired the same way. Double standard is actually biological standard. Because I haven't been a tool to aim someone ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: Janniepeg, she cannot relate to my inner experience of life(+turmoil), no one can. I've reached some crucial peronal understandings about life by the age of 20, lived though all kinds of shit, now being 25. Myself, I would call this a dark enlighte... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: "Why should she be jealous, just because you are jealous too? " I recall her saying that "little bit" of jealousy is healthy, and I openely disagreed, mind you. I think she was ignorant on what even little bit of jealousy means, and when she sen... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: Let me defend myself a little bit more, it must be done. Seems that people with RJ often get treated as insane. No, I don't need professional help, no, I am not obsessive 24/7. It just looks like it, because the subject on this topic is fixed, and I ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: "I see this is a more complicated matter. The long distance and trust issues compounded just exacerbated the RJ symptoms." That's exactly the fuel: distance but only in certain circumstances: potential party situations, girls night out's, act... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: Janniepeg, thank you. This is the first time I can talk about WHOLE relationship without getting accused of simple OCD, or distrust.... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: Tisha, some have understood part of my reasoning about relationships. I think in details about everything in order to avoid pain and harm, this is not just RJ. Pay attention to my descriptions and you'll see that this isn't only some retro ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 10 December 2013: To add some notes: Tonight she was responding from mobile chat. Which NEVER happens at night because she's at the college apartment, and has a notebook PC. There is no reason whatsoever to use mobile phone for surfing and studying over there in a ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 9 December 2013: Well, I've listed some of those feelings under irrational category. But I still don't think this can be compared, for some reasons which I won't get into. I'll only say that women are not statistically so much bothered by man's sexual history, many ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 9 December 2013: What you wrote lastly, well, its true. My mind is like this, and when you say: "If she's purely lust then you would worry does she really love you?" -Again maybe, but I hate the infinite number of maybe's, because besides potential OCD, I develop my ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 9 December 2013: I like how you address my subject, its very helpful for discussion. It's not a typical worn out simpleton response to just "get over it, or break up" that many people use all over the place on internet. Because this is important stuff in life. I... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 8 December 2013: As said, I don't know what was it all about or how it looked like when it happened. Judging by the fact that there wasn't full-blown sex, and she didn't repeat it, while I got it all from her, I don't think this is "alpha fux beta bux", and I'm ... (read in full...)
Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?
Q. Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will...
A. 8 December 2013: Some good answers, but let me elaborate furthermore. To explain myself additionally; When it comes to RJ, I suffer from every aspect of it. Mentioning few and grouping them: MORE IRRATIONAL ASPECT: 1) insecurity 2) having dilemma to make ... (read in full...)
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