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I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

Q.   This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...

A.   2 November 2010: CindyCares, Your answer is straight-on. Thanks for the clarification. I am an American so things are a little less traditional here. But your breaking down of the situation, what is expected and what is out of bounds is helpful. As for what y... (read in full...)

I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

Q.   This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...

A.   1 November 2010: Dirtball, Thank you very much for all your input. I read your profile too. You are a very wise man. Thanks very much.... (read in full...)

I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

Q.   This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...

A.   1 November 2010: Thanks again. Aunt Honesty--thanks for your honesty. But you don't think a woman who dates a married man is inherently untrustworthy? I mean, in dating the married man she is hurting his wife, and shows she does not care about her feelings... (read in full...)

I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

Q.   This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...

A.   1 November 2010: I really appreciate the feedback. I am not sure I agree that it was too petty to get upset Sunday, given that I know she kept other appointments that day. But as people said, if it was the only occurrence, I would understand it. But she had ... (read in full...)

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