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| | *innamon_girl79's profile:Early 30's Scottish lass. Have had my fair share of ups and downs so far in this life and learnt a few tough lessons along the way. Still learning though, which is why I love this site and the way it helps us all to share our experiences - the good and the bad. I like to think I have gathered a bit of wisdom over the years but I'm also aware what works for one person mightn't for the next person... so I won't take it to heart if we disagree on one matter or another. We're all a work in progress after all!
I like what Tom Robbins has to say about relationships in his hilarious novel 'Still Life with Woodpecker'
"When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on- series polygamy- until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimension to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfilment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter."
Another brilliant T.R quote - "People of ze wurl - Reeelax!"
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Why does it feel like my boyfriend doesn't give a damn?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend been dating for quite a while now and it was great. But I realized that I am the one who does everything. As in; if I wouldn't be coming to him he wouldn't even look at me. Well we're punk and we have kinda the same fri...
A. 10 June 2012: I'm 32 and spent years in a variety of crappy relationships where i never felt truly satisfied or cared for. Only this year did I meet someone and for the first time ever have i fallen in love with someone who loves me in return. Its been an ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel like my boyfriend doesn't give a damn?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend been dating for quite a while now and it was great. But I realized that I am the one who does everything. As in; if I wouldn't be coming to him he wouldn't even look at me. Well we're punk and we have kinda the same fri...
A. 8 June 2012: Leave him, heal your heart and be patient till you meet someone who genuinely treats you with affection, friendship and care before giving your love away again. You deserve someone who appreciates you more than just a piece of meat to fk when ... (read in full...)
Sacrifices to move in with girlfriend - am I being petty?
Q. My girlfriend is a few years older than myself and has a 5 year old daughter. We've been dating for about a year and a half and have been increasingly talking about moving in together. What I want to know is "does it sound like our relationship has ...
A. 4 April 2012: Wow. What is she giving up for you? What is she offering in return for all this sacrifice? There has to be compromise in any relationship but it should be more or less the same amount of give and take from both sides. Is she honestly worth givin... (read in full...)
I don't want to be depressed on holiday when I see my friend's figures in bikinis!
Q. I'm going on holiday in two weeks with my best friends, but it's just hit me how amazing they're bodies are compared to mine. One of them is 6ft and she has a great figure that many guys love and girls are jealous of. In fact it's intimidatin...
A. 7 June 2011: Size 8/10 is as slim as you want to be. Anything less and you'd be in danger of stopping menstruating! The problem is not with your body, but with your perception of yourself. I have a funny feeling (as birds of a feather do flock together...) ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend might be moving away for University.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for four years now and we have a very stable, happy relationship. Last week everything took a bit of a shake, as I found out she had feelings for another guy (not huge feelings... but feelings) and It reall...
A. 9 May 2011: I don't think it's helpful to make sweeping generalisations or absolute rules about any type of relationship, particularly without knowing the personalities involved. Some relationships do survive university, I personally know more than a few. Not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend might be moving away for University.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for four years now and we have a very stable, happy relationship. Last week everything took a bit of a shake, as I found out she had feelings for another guy (not huge feelings... but feelings) and It reall...
A. 9 May 2011: My youngest sister was with her boyfriend for 4 years when she had to leave our home town for university 3.5 hours away, while he stayed to complete his apprenticeship. Their relationship survived for 3 years on sharing weekends and holidays till ... (read in full...)
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