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How to Deal with Sexual Urges

Q.   Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I am 31 years old and a virgin and I would like some advice on how to handle my sexual urges or lessen them to a degree. So far, my methods have been to engage in several hobbies and focusing on my w...

A.   15 October 2023: Hi! Thank you for your response. I’m not sure if you knew when reading my question, but I am not a man. I’m a woman. I haven’t self pleasured in 6 years, and I still struggle with the urges. I do appreciate your advice. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend treats me like glass since I'm a virgin

Q.   Hi y’all. I’ve taken some of your advice to put myself out there and date and get to know a guy. He’s actually a classmate of mine and my friends set us up. We’ve been dating for for a while but he treats me differently. The conversation of sex c...

A.   7 June 2019: Hello y’all, I’m the original poster. I appreciate the advice. I’ve talked to him about how I feel and he still does the same thing. I’m just going to break up with him and take a break from dealing with guys and put all my focus on school. ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   1 October 2018: I guess ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   27 September 2018: I took all of your advice! I was honest with him and told him I was a virgin just looking for casual sex and some fun. He told me he doesn’t date virgins “as their too clingy and no fun in bed”. I haven’t heard from him since :( ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   12 August 2018: I didn’t mean to come off as having an attitude problem. I guess I was surprised at people assuming that I’ve never been to an OBGYN or that I’m not on birth control. I was also surprised that people were assuming I wanted to have a relationship / ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   10 August 2018: Hello again! I just came here asking for advice on how to make myself more comfortable during my first time having sex. That’s all :) ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   10 August 2018: Hello again! I just came here asking for advice on how to make myself more comfortable during my first time having sex. That’s all :) ... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   7 August 2018: Thanks for the responses! Firstly, I’m not interested in what men want or what they care about. I just know know what I want, which is sex. I’m just using this guy for sex. Secondly, my culture doesn’t demand that I stay a virgin for marr... (read in full...)

Can I fool this new guy into thining I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello! I met a man online. We have been talking for three months on an dating app. We’ve clicked and have a lot in common. The conversation of us being intimate has come up. However, I don’t want to tell him I am a virgin, I’m 26 and he is 22...

A.   7 August 2018: Thanks for the responses! Firstly, I’m not interested in what men want or what they care about. I just know know what I want, which is sex. I’m just using this guy for sex. Secondly, my culture doesn’t demand that I stay a virgin for marr... (read in full...)

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