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In the past, my ex was a load of trouble, but he seems to be improving now...

Q.   I've been with a man who cheated (massage parlor), smokes a lot of pot, and who gets verbally abusive (sometimes physically aggressive). It's been a year since I moved out and broke it off with him. Now he's showing signs of change, and growth. ...

A.   27 May 2005: To avoid getting hurt later you need to be brutally honest with yourself. Do you trust him? (Not to cheat, to regress back to pot, to become abusive?) If you don't trust him the doubt will come between you if you try to start again. It seems he... (read in full...)

My b/f left me for someone else. Now he's back, we're having sex and I'm confused!

Q.   I am a very confused person right now. About a year and half ago, by boyfriend of 5 years cheated on my with someone he works with. He said that we would work on things and it wouldn't happen again. So I forgave him, but he left me for her ...

A.   26 May 2005: I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago. It seems he wants to move on but doesn't want to let you go. I would advise you to be proactive, take the first step and move on as soon as possible, he's using you as a second option. He's ... (read in full...)

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