He's away for a semester and he rarely calls. Do you think he's cheating or is he just busy?
Q. my boyfriend is in new zealand for a semester so he'll be back in dec. and weve been together a little over a year. what am i suppose to do when he rarely calls, never does what he says hes going to do anymore (get on aim, get a phone card, etc.) ...
A. 25 November 2006: Hi there,
I can't tell you whether or not he's cheating. He's certainly distracted by something. He may be busy. He may be making new friends. He may be overwhelmed by schoolwork. Or maybe he is just taking you for granted. No matter what it is, h... (read in full...)
Mother wants me to date a boy of her choice! How do I deal with Mom?
Q. My mother keeps insisting I go out with a boy I cannot stand I always end up upset with her and now she's telling my sister to tell me off because of this fact, I am getting vey upset with my mother and Think she is a bit stupid in her behaviour, ...
A. 25 November 2006: It would be nice if your mother was behaving more maturely here, but unfortunately, she is not. She can't see or doesn't want to believe that you just do not like this boy. And enlisting your sister to tell you off is just plain mean.
Do you stil... (read in full...)
I have a fiancee and a child but-there's this other guy. Do I stay or go?
Q. Well i have been with my fiancee for 2 years and we have a 1 yr old child together. When we first got together i realized i knew my fiancess best friend from a couple months before i had actually met my fiance! well we would talk once in a while and ...
A. 25 November 2006: Dear stay or go,
Your relationship is going to flounder if you and your fiancé don't talk to each other. Relationships live or die based on the quality of communication. If neither of you talk to each other, if you don't make an effort, you will... (read in full...)
He's difficult to be around-not sure of our future together. How do I talk to him about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both 20 years of age. We've been together for 2years and few months now. He used to be a nice person generally but lately he has become rude. He speaks disrespectfully about people and expects me to side with him otherwise the ...
A. 25 November 2006: Hi there,
I understand that you love this guy, but he sounds very controlling and manipulative. He takes his stress out on you. He is rude to you and to others and picks arguments with you when you stand up to him about his rudeness. He always d... (read in full...)
My Egyptian bf is 30-I'm 52! I'm concerned about the age difference..any thoughts?
Q. i have been talking to a man from Egypt for nearly 4 years now and i find i am at a lost on many things. he tells me he is 30 years of age and yet i am 52. but when i talk to him everytime i find he is not a young man becoz of how he expresses ...
A. 25 November 2006: I'm assuming that when you say that you have "a good honest relationship" that this includes his being full aware of the age difference that exists between the two of you. So if it's not an issue for him, then I don't see what you are worrying about ... (read in full...)
Two women on the go! How do I tell the truth to my new gf and my old gf, who has a baby!
Q. i was moving out with a girl and she now has my baby.When I went to University, I met an old friend and fell in love with her.We are currently too deep in love with each other that I am finding it hard to reveal the truth about my other Girlfriend ...
A. 25 November 2006: Dear Two Women on the Go,
You're completely right when you say that your new girlfriend is most likely going to be hurt when you tell her the truth. If you have any hope of continuing in this relationship with her, you need to tell her sooner r... (read in full...)
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