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I went to a strip club and my wife suspects. Should I come clean?

Q.   I have been with my wife (dating and married) for 19 years now. We have had our ups and downs and during a down period (about 10 years into our relationship) I went to a strip club for the first time. I always had this bad idea about strip clubs an...

A.   19 June 2011: I agree with the post by freeme. I think that the most important part is this - "Can you live and die with a lie between you and your partner?" If I were you, I would not tell your wife. What's the point? You've done it already, you can... (read in full...)

Are my expectations too high?

Q.   is this getting too serious. i am 20 yrs old never had a girlfriend ( i lie to some of my friends and tell them that i had some short relationships in the past) i am still a virgin (i lie about that to my close guy firneds as well). i am goo...

A.   19 June 2011: I'm a similar age to you and I have a few friends my age that haven't been in serious relationships yet because they haven't met anyone that they think they feel strongly enough about. Do I think "what a loser"? No, I think, I wish I was as sensible ... (read in full...)

My friends say I'm just too much of a nice guy to be in a relationship. Is it true? Is that why I'm single?

Q.   Heyy I'm sorry if this is too short but I need advice, I'm an 18 year old male and never been in a relationship and my friends say this could be a direct result of me being "too kind". Which I don't get, I don't see what's wrong with being kind all ...

A.   18 June 2011: Ok, well there's two ways to be 'kind'. I have two friends, one of them is the nicest, kindest, funniest guy I know and as friends, we get on really really well. He's genuinely a good guy who would do anything to make anyone feel better. But ther... (read in full...)

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