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... Send *andlelight7 a private message | | | *andlelight7's profile:Well at this point in time, I'm struggling in a different kind of relationship, something i've yet to find myself in until now. i've posted a couple questions about it, and i really hope to carry out the solution pretty soon.
As far as helping others, i've been through some tough times for someone my age. In the end of it all i come out a very strong person. i'm a fighter in life; i fight through my obstacles. i've been cheated on, i myself have committed the act of infidelity and its nothing to boast about, i've miscarried, i've had several one-night stands, i'm still in love with the one and only guy who has ever managed to make me feel this way, unfortunately he is my ex, we still communicate, there is still hope for us to become a loving couple again, but we'll see...
On the lighter side of things, i have many pets. Cats and dogs. My favorite colors are purple and blue. i listen to all kinds of music. i'm a writer and an amateur photographer. i plan to get into the medical field here pretty soon. i love going to the beach. It's so peaceful. And best of all, i've always wanted to help people so that they may possibly avoid the heartbreak i've been through. It was all unnecessary, and it could've been prevented had i had someone to talk to and someone to tell me what i was doing wasn't the smartest thing in the world. So i hope i can be that helping "someone" for somebody here. |
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He has an anger problem and I want to leave him! How can I do this without getting hurt?
Q. I had posted a question a while back, wondering what to do about my boyfriend with an anger problem. i've now reached the point where i'm ready to leave, as soon as my mother gets a place, hopefully before August. My question is HOW do i leave ...
A. 13 October 2008: UPDATE: i finally left him two and a half weeks ago. His brother and my mother got into a very loud late night verbal confrontation and the cops were called and it was clear he was choosing his brother over me, because he couldn't understand why i... (read in full...)
How can I cope with putting my cat down? She's like a part of the family.
Q. I know this probably isn't about relationships per se... It's about my cat. In my family, we just adore her! She's been with us for 9 years, almost 10, almost half of my life (I'm turning 20 in a few months)... Well, she's old now. And she's...
A. 14 July 2008: Oh dear, i understand this situation completely. i'm 20 years old as well. Back when i was 14 years old, me and my mom went through this same situation. Our cat was 11 years old. We got her as a kitten when i was 3. She all of a sudden stopped ... (read in full...)
He has an anger problem and I want to leave him! How can I do this without getting hurt?
Q. I had posted a question a while back, wondering what to do about my boyfriend with an anger problem. i've now reached the point where i'm ready to leave, as soon as my mother gets a place, hopefully before August. My question is HOW do i leave ...
A. 14 July 2008: i guess i should've mentioned i live with him.
To Jasmine05: My mother told me to do that. Since im getting my license back soon, she said it would be best to move me and my things out of here when theyre all at work. Theres plenty of days whe... (read in full...)
I'm so confused about this boy I like.
Q. I'll make this quick, basically i've been in love with this guy for over 3 years now and we're good mates. But he doesnt see me in that way, at least i dont think he does, any way the other weekend i was 'in town' with a bunch of mates and we ...
A. 8 July 2008: He seems he feels antimidated by you. Just maybe communicate with him. Let him know how you feel without actually throwing yourself at him. He may think you're not so much out of his league after all.... (read in full...)
I'll do anything to get this guy to commit to me! Do you think I should play hard to get?
Q. so this guy who i really like says he has feelings for me. i know he does because he shows how much he cares for me. well he said he isnt sure if he can give me what i deserve, which is committment. well we took one week away from each other. he ...
A. 8 July 2008: I don't think you should play hard to get to prove to him he misses you when you're not around. In my experiences, that pushes a guy away. Since you have sex with each other, you should bring it up casually. "You know, since we already sleep ... (read in full...)
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