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*ushrod

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How can we be friends again?

Q.   She found out few weeks ago I like her I spoke and admitted it. She spoke later saying she doesn't feel the same. We were close friends but now she talks ok when I talk but most of time she avoids talking like walks faster when I'm near her. Its ...

A.   25 March 2008: That's a tough one. I'd have to say that you should try and get her to talk with you once and tell her that you wanted her to know how you felt but at the same time didn't want to ruin your friendship which by telling her how you felt made her ... (read in full...)

I keep testing, hoping to be 'prego', what should be my next step?

Q.   OK well ! I still have no period or signs of a period. And I'm due on 3/28/2008, I had a blood preg. test on 3/23/2008 which may have been too soon but I thought I'd test anyways. I did a urine test on 3/24/2008. Both were neg. Does anyone have any ...

A.   25 March 2008: I agree that you'll just have to wait since I have no experience in this. But good luck to you.... (read in full...)

His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.

Q.   My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he ...

A.   25 March 2008: I agree. I believe that you should live with someone before marriage. So if you did that then his "moodiness" should have come out before this. Do what makes you happy. If you want to try and work it out talk to him and tell him what is making you ... (read in full...)

Is it bad to ask my boyfriend for less attention? I have feelings for a long distance friend...

Q.   Okay well theres this guy and we've met way long ago, since then we've always liked each other. He lives in the Philippines and i live in United States. but no matter what everytime i go there its like the feelings never go away. In other words ...

A.   25 March 2008: It sounds to me like you don't want to be in a relationship with this guy. I think you should get your feelings as straight as you can on your boyfriend and see what you want in a relationship right now and if isn't what you want then break things ... (read in full...)

I doubt anyone has ever been in such a situation with his girlfriend

Q.   Before everyone begins with the "nah bro, dump her dump her" stuff, read it completely, and put yourself in my situation, and atleast TRY to understand how I feel. I'm with a girl right now, and quite frankly, she is amazing. Whether we're talking ...

A.   18 March 2008: Well all I have to say is that the first time she cheated on you all she did was make out with her ex. She said she would never do it again and she did it anyway only the 2nd time she had sex with him. You said it yourself man, she's a good GF but ... (read in full...)

Can it be possible that he is not sure about how he feels towards me? Friend is trying to set us up!

Q.   I like this boy and my friend is trying to set us up. We are going out next Saturday but it is with friends so i don't know if he likes me. My friend likes him too but doesn't want to admit it and he likes us both too. He says he likes me more. W...

A.   18 March 2008: 1. He is a nice guy and trying not to hurt your feelings or your friends feelings 2. He is keeping the door open to you and your friend in hopes that he can have sex with you both. I'd say you just need to talk to him on this date and see what y... (read in full...)

I'm curious about what people think about making noise during sex...

Q.   So this might be a dumb question, but I have always wondered: How much noise do you make during sex? Do you moan, scream, ect? And if so, do you only do it when you are having an orgasm or the whole time? Also, do guys find it attractive if a ...

A.   18 March 2008: I think it all depends on what makes you feel good. If making noise in bed makes you hotter then do it. If your man isn't making noise ask him about it. The only way to know is to communicate what you like and dislike. Me personally like to make a ... (read in full...)

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