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... Send *randee77 a private message | | | *randee77's profile:I am a married female but before this husband, I was married before to an abuser emotionally and physically and I have trust issues because I was cheated on so much. I have trust issues now in my current relationship due to the previous relationship I was in, and honestly I know this is not fair to him.
Although he has done some things that make me question his loyalty to me as well. In fact, my current husband is the reason I came to this site to begin with.
Sometimes we question ourselves and our relationships. Is this where I want to be? But sometimes we question our mate, IS this where YOU want to be? Sometimes you just have to be really open and honest with each other to avoid hurting or causing an issue to just keep lingering around you.
I live in the state of Texas and have been with my husband now for about 6 years and married for a little over 3. My last marriage lasted about 6-7 years.
If there is anything I can do to help out another person here I will do what I can do and give advice on any of my experiences of what I have been through and /or going through.
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A. 18 August 2010: Just stop paying for her and see what happens. If she goes then you know for sure she was just using you. If she stays and tries to handle her own Financial problems, which she can't be mad at you about because those were her issues before she met ... (read in full...)
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