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My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   2 July 2008: Thank you, I am going to see a solicitor this afternoon to get my facts straight. I know she is hurting but, but I think she is hurting the kids more by doing this. ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   1 July 2008: I have been seperated from my wife for 4 months now. I have still been playing an active part in my childrens life, e.g bayby sitting, watch them at their swimming lessons and having them stay with me at weekends, I call them in the morning before ... (read in full...)

I cheated, but now I'm married and I will never cheat again. Should I tell him?

Q.   15 months ago I cheated (i gave a friend a hand job) on my at the time boyfriend (we got engaged 3 months after it happened) now we are getting married in 1 and a half weeks and I am wondering if I should tell him? In all actuality we were in a ...

A.   1 July 2008: No, put it behind you and be happy together ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   24 June 2008: Well the feeling of guilt of being happy and my kids not having a dad around full time has got me down so much I ended up going back to the doc's. I talked it through with the doc and decided to go back on fluxoetine for a while and see how it goes. ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   19 June 2008: Hi Guys and Girls, Just a quick update because I am confused about my feelings and need your help. It has been 4 months since My wife and I seperated and in this time I did come to meet a very special person who has told me that she loves me and ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   19 April 2008: Hi Guys, i am back again. I have still not moved back in and still soul searching as to if I should. The question I need answering is when I look in to my wifes eyes I can never see us being lovers again. Has anyone else thought this way about their ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   4 April 2008: I took my wife into the hospital on Tuesday she had her operation at 4pm that day and I went home at 9 pm that evening. We spoke to one another while we waited and there was a lot of bitterness on both sides. I dont agree with the operation never ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   28 March 2008: Ok , well it has been 3 week at my mothers now. I have not got any further with my wife. My kids sometimes cry down the phone at me, although when we are together the quality time we have is great. My wife goes in for her op on 1st April.... very ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   17 March 2008: we guys I when I dropped the childern back home last night I spoke to my wife. We exchanged a few words calmly i might add. She reckons that after a week apart the if I dont know by now if I want to go back then I never will. She then added that she ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   15 March 2008: Not sure if I have done anything. I suppose I am guilty of carrying her through our marriage. I know I have a fling last year and got the warmth and love from another, but equally knew that it was wrong and ended things. At that point in Nov 200... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   14 March 2008: I dont want to upset the childern any more than I have to.. I have to admit that I am finding all this rather to deal with. It took a lot for me to leave is wasn't just on a whim. Maybe i should give it a little time and if she doesn't want me back ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   14 March 2008: Just spoken to my wife, she seems to becoming to terms with me being at my mothers. So what do I do. She has told me that I either make a decision and come home and not be angery with her, or just to stay away. see the fact that see has said that ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   14 March 2008:  ariel, my wife is 23 stone and yes I have tried in the pass to motivate her in to changing her life style. I have tried the team work approach, I have pussy footed around her for years. So I thought this would be a more direct to shake her up to do ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   13 March 2008: over the years i have tried to get her to come out for walks with the kids etc, we even joined a gym, but it was all in vain. We bought a shop 3 years a go to see if it would might make her more active, but it didn't and instead i ended up doing all ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   13 March 2008: Hate is a very strong word and I know i do not hate her.... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   13 March 2008:  I dont see my wife as a "Fat Person" She was a size 16 when I met her, I have supported her through all these years. I have stood by her, given her everything that was possible, I will be truthfully now the crunch came for me when we try to make ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   12 March 2008: I hear what you are saying Tellulah, so should I return to my home or give her some more time to show her that i mean what I say ?. I have been away from the home for 5 nights now, the kids are ok. I just see this as her quick fix... do you know... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   12 March 2008: I hear what you are saying Tellulah, so should I return to my home or give her some more time to show her that i mean what I say ?. I have been away from the home for 5 nights now, the kids are ok. I just see this as her quick fix... do you know... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   12 March 2008: I spoke with my wife last night. She has told me that she is going to make an appointment to see the doctor and to be refered for the gastric bypass. So you all may think that she is now doing something about it ?? I think her problems run deeper a... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   11 March 2008: irish49... You are right in what you are saying I haven't been the the most faithful husband, but I have tried to go to marriage guidence but she will not consider it. I am not constantly reminding her. I have been supportive for years. It is only ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   11 March 2008: I do love my wife and I wouldn't want to see any harm come to her, but I honestly dont know if I love in the way it was when we got married. I woke up so to speak at the begining of this year and decided that I didnt want to 60 and look back with ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   11 March 2008: I have been supportive through out. for the last 3 years i have made the move to instigate a kiss and a cuddle to only be pushed away and be told I was only after one thing. There is only so may times you can you can let this happen and then you ... (read in full...)

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