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Is he going to be disgusted when he sees me naked?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and I'm ready to have sex with him. I'm a virgin and he's not. He loves me so much and i love him back, but I'm not comfortable with my body AT ALL. I find it ugly, but he says that I'm beautiful every ...

A.   26 October 2008: First of all, losing your virginity is a big step thattakes a lot of time and consideration. I can't remeber the age limit in your country, but in mine it's sixteen and the average age a girls loses her virginity is 18. Judging by your profile, you ... (read in full...)

He says I scare him because I want a commitment. How do I respond?

Q.   I've been dating a 52 year old (i'm 43) for 2 months, today he emailed me, he says: I scare him because it seems I'm pushing for a commitment and he's not ready for that right now. How do I respond to that??????...

A.   23 October 2008: From the way you describe it, it seems that you have not directly asked him or triggerd him to make a commitment. Nevertheless, it may be that u=you have unintentionally or subconciously done something for him to have reacted this way. Also, he has ... (read in full...)

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

Q.   I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

A.   23 October 2008: I know its hard when you fall so badly for someone, but at the same time you have to respect yourself enough not to let someone use you, especially when they've put it so plainly as that! You could try to explain this to him, and if he understands, ... (read in full...)

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