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Why do I find "softer" guys much more attractive?

Q.   I'm a girl, and while I'm stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways (am always wearing dresses or skirts, into fashion and beauty, have a really girly voice), I also have a strong personality and am "masculine" in other ways. I love sports, lif...

A.   2 July 2013: A relationship between you and the sort of guy you're attracted to would be well balanced and probably very strong and enduring because you would both bring to it qualities which the other needs. A 'soft' guy needs a girl like you to 'steer the ... (read in full...)

Why do I find "softer" guys much more attractive?

Q.   I'm a girl, and while I'm stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways (am always wearing dresses or skirts, into fashion and beauty, have a really girly voice), I also have a strong personality and am "masculine" in other ways. I love sports, lif...

A.   2 July 2013: I'm a soft-spoken, sensitive, shy guy myself, and I find this post very interesting. I have always found it difficult to imagine girls being attracted to men like me, so this sort of gives me hope. A soft, sensitive, shy guy is an outsider. He has... (read in full...)

I suffer from premature ejaculation and my girlfriend is not sexually satisfied!

Q.   My girlfriend only orgasms from penetration. Thats a huge problem for me because i am small in size and i have premature ejaculation. She can nver orgasm from oral sex. I tried many different things and even went online looking for new techniques ...

A.   2 July 2013: Stop masturbating. Really, it works. It's like a magic cure for all your sexual problems. Check out this website: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ You don't need a doctor and you don't need any artificial sexual implements. There's nothing ... (read in full...)

B/f masturbates before he sees me and then doesn't want sex!

Q.   Hello agony aunts thank you for always answering my questions and helping me with my problems. I am here today because I have an issue with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He tells me he has a bad habit of jacking off before he sees me. And so ...

A.   2 July 2013: Point him in the direction of this website: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ Masturbation, especially to porn or while fantasising, weakens a man's desire for (real) sex; it overstimulates him to the point where a real woman is not enough to ar... (read in full...)

How to go in for the first kiss

Q.   I'm 15 and I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and I'm really starting to like her and I want to go in for the kiss but I don't know when to do it....

A.   28 June 2013: You definitely shouldn't plan it. If you plan a specific time and place/ situation then when the time comes you will feel too nervous and eith won't go through with it, or it will be a bad kiss. When the moment feels right, just kiss her. She agre... (read in full...)

How can I make friends, even find a girlfriend, my age that meets my expectations and I can have fun with?

Q.   My name is Carleigh. I'm 15 going on 16 in about ten days, and I'm a sophomore. I'm very mature, smart, funny, and honest. I'm a lesbian. I love literature, the English language, art, theatre, Shakespeare, learning, school, food, music, health and ...

A.   28 June 2013: You sound like a great person, and I can empathise with you. When I was 15, I hated other 15 year olds. Most teenagers are total bores and don't know anything. However, that kind of cynical attitude didn't make me any friends. You clearly have a w... (read in full...)

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