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My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   17 June 2011: Thanks a lot, Rescuer, for your encouraging words. God knows I badly needed them.I was all prepared to get a dressing down from everyone for not walking out of the marriage , but I guess I've made my compulsions fairly clear. Yes, I do try to m... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   15 June 2011:  I decided to take your advice and finally mustered the courage to inform her hb. I got his email id from my hb's fb a/c and contacted him , saying i wanted to discuss something very imp with him and not to tell his wife about it. Can you imagine ... (read in full...)

Somebody please talk me out of cheating.

Q.   Somebody please talk me out of cheating. I am married with kids ( marriage has become a little boring , rutine and very predictable), but I'm craving that excitement of the affairs. I know for sure I WILL NOT get caught ever, and I am sure I WILL N...

A.   15 June 2011: Pl don't even think abt it. My hb cheated on me only online and things went so horribly wrong that i feel my marriage is on the verge of breaking up.u can read my question posted on 7th april to get an idea of the trauma and loss of self esteem ... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   31 May 2011: dear aunts, well, he came over to my bro's place last week and promised it was all over between them and also that he wouldn't force me to go to my in- laws house unless i felt like it.when i also asked him to promise he wouldn't raise his hand... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   18 May 2011: STATUS UPDATE ON MY QUESTION POSTED ON 7TH APRIL 2011 Well, the trip is over...it was more of a punishment than a honeymoon.i ensured that they were not left together for any length of time. but boy, is she attractive!! She was a model for YSL at a... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   19 April 2011: to my first male advisor Yes, that is partly the problem. Even though i can make out from their mails that they are besotted with each other, he is still not ready to accept that he loves her.he claims they were just "fooling around"online an... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   19 April 2011: i shall post an update in a day or two it was not poss to make alternative staying arrangements, so it seems i have to stay with her... and when i read their chats... i almost feel guilty for being his wife! they really get along so well, they are... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   12 April 2011: Dear rescuer, I can't meet her as she lives in another continent!! She does visit India around once a year or so to meet her mother why do you think I knew something was wrong when my husband who is too lazy to take the kids 400 km for a holida... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   12 April 2011: Friends, I think you are right about his being careful because i am in a position to "ruin"his trip.that is the reason he is being extra sweet and reining in his temper. remember i said that he had promised to tell me his password and to break of... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   10 April 2011: my dear rescuer and lovegirl contrary to what you say, it appears to be my best bet to save my marriage... the problem is... the trip is partly sponsored by a company. If it is cancelled, they r not likely to do it next time. if i agree , he i... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   10 April 2011: mMy status update on 10/4/1: Theres too much going on simultaneously...it's v difficult to makw alternative arrangements,so he is trying to pressurise me into staying with THEM.Embarassing to explain to every1 if the trip is cancelled.3 nights a... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   8 April 2011: My present status on 8th april: following the advice of my rescuer and my anonymous well wisher, i confrontedmy hb last night. can u imagine? he pretended that he didn't know what i was talking about till i repeated their conversation verbatim to h... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   7 April 2011: dear anonymous, thanks for your advice and concern.you are right, i must confront him NOW. I shall do so as soon as i have forwarded all his mail to my account. even i was looking forward to this trip as a romantic getaway or a second honeymoo... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   7 April 2011: dear rescuer, thanx for ur advice.first, let me clarify a few things:i have JUST come across the mails last night, so i had no proof before that.i havent slept a wink for the last twenty four hours.i just can't think straight , as all the various ... (read in full...)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

Q.   i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

A.   7 April 2011: dear rescuer, thanx for ur advice.first, let me clarify a few things:i have JUST come across the mails last night, so i had no proof before that. i did confront him once, when he took her name in bed instead of mine,but he totally denied it. he swor... (read in full...)

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