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It just feels to weird to go out with my boy mate, even though he's asked me out!

Q.   Hiya, I love someone and he loves me. I have liked this guy for a long, long time, but now he has asked me out and I feel like it has ruined everything. But really it hasn't, and the problem is....he's a really good mate and has been for ages! I...

A.   4 February 2006: Hey hun, well if you feel like you love him then you guys should give things a shot! I know its werid because you guys have been friends for a long time but theres no real way to stop the werid feelings...you just have to look past it and let ... (read in full...)

Can I tempt her away from the memory of her ex?

Q.   I really like this girl at school, but she still likes her ex. I want to show her that I really like her so that she will get over him enough to come on a date with me. What can I do?...

A.   4 February 2006: Hey, the best way to show her how to get over her x is to show her who you are...hang out with her lots and make her see that you guys are amazing together make her feel like you are someone really worth going after...you could do this by opening up ... (read in full...)

Met a new guy and he's amazing! So should I dump the old bf and go after this new guy?

Q.   Ok I have a problem. I have been in a serious relationship for about a year and a half and I am very close with his family and lately we have been talking about getting engaged. I really felt that we were going to be together forever until I went on ...

A.   4 February 2006: Hey sweety, Well I'm sort of going through the same thing as you only im on the other side being the "new girl" the exact same thing is happening to me This boy I really like is still with his girlfriend but he doesn't have feelings for her anymore ... (read in full...)

Any idea what his reaction will be about my age-lie?

Q.   I'm a 17 year old female in a relationship with a 26 year old male. The problem is, I lied about my age. My birthday is in March. I will be 18. He thinks I will be 19. Its only a years difference. It could be worse... but I'm just terrified to tell ...

A.   25 January 2006: Hey hun! Don't worry just explain to him why you lied and explain that you wanted to tell him but you were afraid of his reaction. If he likes you he will understand and really its only a years difference its not that big of deal im sure he will be ... (read in full...)

I get depressed and upset when my gf still socializes with some of her ex-lovers. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and about six months ago she revealed her sexual past. It was tough at first but through counseling and talking to her I have been able to get through it. Most of her past sexual partners she doesn't ...

A.   25 January 2006: Hey hun, Don't worry if your girl has been with you for so long then you shouldn't worry, maybe she is just really good friends with these guys. I don't think you should exclude yourself from going to these places where these other boys will be ... (read in full...)

Been chatting to a nice guy online... But how will he see past my "size" when we meet?

Q.   Hi all..okies... i have recently been chattin to a really nice guy who i met on the internet via my holiday discussion board. Since we have been chattin for the last few weeks we've discovered that we have loads in common. The trouble is we seem ...

A.   25 January 2006: Hey! Don't worry about it meet with him and hang out! If he is as nice as he seems he wont care about your weight! Show him who you are have fun with him. Show him that you have confidence guys love girls that are confident, and he will see what a ... (read in full...)

Met a new guy and he's amazing! So should I dump the old bf and go after this new guy?

Q.   Ok I have a problem. I have been in a serious relationship for about a year and a half and I am very close with his family and lately we have been talking about getting engaged. I really felt that we were going to be together forever until I went on ...

A.   24 January 2006: well you only live once. And do you want to go on the rest of your life regreting what could have happend with this other boy?..My advice to you is if you don't love your boyfriend as much anymore then you two should maybe take a break. there are ... (read in full...)

I have a problem with sweating...any advice?

Q.   Hi, i need some advice on a health issue. I'm 22yrs, male, and I'm in great shape, go to gym, and eat healthy, however i finD that i am sweating way too much, and more than what I used to, I just have to do a simple thing like move some things q...

A.   24 January 2006: My advice to you is check with a doctor maybe you have a hormone imbalance or something. Otherwise check on line there are some great tips. ... (read in full...)

I want him to see me as more than just a friend...

Q.   ok, how can i stand out as special to the guy i like? I'm 15, he's 16. I know he kinda likes me cuz his friends have told me, but I know he's also scared to have a relationship with anyone because the last girl he went out with cheated on him. He...

A.   22 January 2006: Flirt with him next time u hang out with him start sending him signs be super flirty and show alot of affection towards him. but most importantly be yourself this guy will respect you and really notice you if you just be yourself and not be afraid ... (read in full...)

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