I'm attracted to boys... and girls. Should I worry? Is this a problem?
Q. Hello, I'm just typing in because I don't know who to turn to, and this is probably the wrong place. Here's the problem, when I was about 12 or 13, I started geting attracted to boys like expected, but for some reason I liked girls too. I never to...
A. 4 August 2005: I am more worried about the fact that you have been prescribed anti-depressants for this 'problem' than the fact that you are attracted to girls. Many people are bi-sexual, this is not an abnormal state of being. However I understand that at your ... (read in full...)
We had a fight over my friendship with an ex-boyfriend...
Q. My b/f and I had a fight over me being friends with an ex. I had always been honest with him but he has accused me of lying to him about the situation. We have recently began talking again and both still have feelings for each other, but he is ...
A. 4 August 2005: If you were always as honest with your boyfriend as you say you were then it sounds to me as though there is nothing for him to forgive and forget apart from his own insecurity issues which you have no control over. Only he can deal with these and ... (read in full...)
When she's drunk, she gets cuddly, but when she's sober she backs away from me...
Q. I am having a very confusing problem with one of my friends and I don't know what to do. Basically we slept together a few months ago and now I am confused. We are both girls and that is fine with us as we have both been with other girls before. ...
A. 4 August 2005: Try talking to your friend explaining that you feel as though you are getting mixed messages from her, e.g. cuddly when drunk and distant when sober. Ask her if this is related to the night you spent together saying you are happy to discuss this if ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have to choose between my love and my parents...
Q. I'm 19 years old. My problem is I'm interested in women. I'm a Lesbian. I love a girl. I love her so much and she also loves me too. We want to be together and marry. She so nice. She always takes care of me, stay with me when I'm alone. She makes ...
A. 4 August 2005: Dear Reader,
Give your parent's time. It can be hard to accept when your child 'comes out' for the first time and I would say that their reaction is just shock at this new information. However, you must keep in mind that what you are doing is... (read in full...)
My friends say I look like a boy, but I'm happy with the way I look!
Q. I have a biggest problem in my life. I'm a pretty girl but my friends tell me that I look like a boy. So guys in university weren't interested in me because they believe that I'm a boy. Some friends told me I should change hair style from short-hair ...
A. 4 August 2005: Dear Reader,
First and foremost it sounds as though you have answered your own question. You clearly state that your are a pretty girl and are happy with your hair style so I doubt that you have any self-esteem issues. It sounds to me that it'... (read in full...)
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