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Should I shave in preparation for sex?

Q.   So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...

A.   30 December 2008: If your really worried talk to him about it, ask him what he finds "sexy". Or if your too shy just ask your girlfriends there opionion of what they would do or have done. But remember if its both your first time, he probably doesnt no what to expec... (read in full...)

Where do I put my hands and how do I stand?

Q.   hi when your boyfriend puts his hands up your top, how should you stand, where do you put your hands on him? i feel comfortable with this btw, but i just need some advice lol thanks xxx ...

A.   4 December 2008: stand holding his hips or better yet the back of his neck and tickle it slowly and run hands through his hair. anything that feels comfortable for you to do =]. ... (read in full...)

How do I ask a woman to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm in my forties and have not had sex for nearly 17 years. How do I get a woman into my bed? Females only answer please. Thank you....

A.   30 November 2008: I know im olny young myself but if someone asked me straight up to have sex with me it would be a kind of turn off and kinda uncomfable. All i can say is, take a woman out that you like, have fun with her and make sure you dont act all up front with... (read in full...)

My friends can't accompany me to the party, should I go alone to meet strangers?

Q.   alright so i'm going to a party tomorrow. it's a birthday party. for my old best friend. me and her have been friends for so long then she moved and we kinda drifted. but anyways, i was supposed to go with my new 2 best friends (well not new, but ...

A.   30 November 2008: well i think your friends are being abit harsh on you as you want to go, but i dont think it wise to go alone as you dont want to end up having a boring time as you only know one person there. see if any of your other friends would like to come... (read in full...)

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

Q.   I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...

A.   30 November 2008: Make an appoinment now, leaving a a tampon inside you can lead to many medical problems which can even be fatal. You may have nothing left inside you but its best to not take risks if your worried. go now. hope everything goes well. ... (read in full...)

Lately he doesn't text me back, should I be upset or just get over him?

Q.   I recently started to text this guy. My friend gave me his number and she said he is really nice, so I started to text him and have been for about a month now, but I found out that he is a player. But when we talks he calls me sexy and baby and all ...

A.   30 November 2008: If i was in your situation i would make sure you and your friend talked about this as either of you deserve to be treated this way. Now you know the real him, would you really like to enter a relationship or even become friends with this guy with... (read in full...)

My boyfriend insults me but says he is joking. Would you take it as a joke?

Q.   My boyfriend calls me names like b__ch, sl_t, w___e, ugly, fat, smelly, tramp, etc. But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it. Well I dont take it as a joke, and I take very seriously. Do you think that Im overreacting? Would you take ...

A.   30 November 2008: No your not overreacting atall, hes obviously being very immature towards you if he thinks swearing at you in this manner is a joke. make sure the next time he lets out a joke of this kid you tell him that you do not find it atall funny and hes acti... (read in full...)

Why is my friend acting like this?

Q.   My best guy friend has been ignoring since school started all because he has a girlfriend. At first I thought it was he didnt want drama that he with his ex (she thought he cheating on her with me). Once I said hi to him and he didnt even look at ...

A.   29 November 2008: Many people distance from friends when they start in a relationship without even being aware of it, But it seems that he is being very rude not talking to you as you have made the effort to talk to him. Try and catch him on his own and just talk... (read in full...)

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