I feel deeply conflicted over my 8 year relationship. What should I do?
Q. I am deeply conflicted. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. That's right, 8 years. And yes, lately the 8 years have been wearing down on me. I am 32, and I want to be married. He says he wants to be married...
A. 6 June 2017: Thank you all for your advice. I have a lot to think about.... (read in full...)
Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?
Q. Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone so...
A. 28 June 2015: Thanks for all your responses. The reason that I do not easily trust him is because of lies that he has been caught telling me in the past. There are lots of issues that have been challenging us in the relationship that has made me become a little ... (read in full...)
Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?
Q. Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone so...
A. 28 June 2015: Honeypie, you're shouting at me, and making a lot of assumptions that I didn't quite say. I didn't put the whole story in because it's LONG and complicated, but if you continue to behave so aggressively, and compare your situation to mine, which is ... (read in full...)
I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dis...
A. 28 April 2013: Thank you all for your responses. Aunty Audrey, truly I do think taking space from him might help, and yes it is true that he does have self esteem issues that I wish he would sort out.
But I too need courage to take space as we talk to each oth... (read in full...)
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