How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?
Q. I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...
A. 25 August 2010: Thank you everyone for taking the time to comment on my situation. It will take a little more thought and planning on my part, and I do want to try talking to my husband about it, but I'm afraid that the minute I say that I'm considering leaving, ... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?
Q. I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...
A. 24 August 2010: I had outlined much of what led up to the decision in my initial question, and the editors felt that it was too similar to an earlier post of mine. I felt I had to leave the info out to get the question about how to prepare for divorce posted. ... (read in full...)
Considering leaving my husband after 23 years!
Q. I am considering leaving my husband after 23 years. I often wondered wether I should have married him in the first place, but at the time I was craving stability. We had kids pretty soon after that, and then the problems continued. I have ne...
A. 21 August 2010: At this point, I need to figure out how and when to tell him. My therapist said that the conversation should be very brief, not allowing him to try to figure out what to change - the time for that is over. One thing he asked if I could say was, ... (read in full...)
I have always wondered if he (husband) was the right choice...
Q. We have been married 22 years, and have three children 20, 17, and 14. I have always wondered if he was the right choice, even before we got married. I was an alcoholic in recovery when we met (I'm still struggling), and it seemed like the right ...
A. 14 August 2010: Thank you everyone for your advice. I guess it's time to really take a hard look at my life and try to figure out what I'm looking for. I just know that I'm not getting any emotional support, even though I'm getting physical (roommate) support. I ... (read in full...)
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