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I have lost my self esteem. How an I get it back again?

Q.   I am 21 years old and have real self esteem issues. I have been with my boyfriend for just under a year and for the first half of this year he built up my self confidence from basically nothing. Now I can feel myself slipping back to where I was. I ...

A.   6 October 2009: If you keep putting strain on your relationship by seeking validation from your boyfriend, who does love you by the way, then you are going to put in under tremendous strain and he will get fed up with it. Get on line and look at what you can do to ... (read in full...)

Now that I'm pregnant, he doesn't seem around anymore! How can I get through this?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I am expecting a baby In December. Our life used to be great together, we would have so much fun and i felt so loved and cared for. We spent all of our time together and he treated me ...

A.   6 October 2009: Aw honey there is nothing good about the situation you are in. Congratulations on your baby and this is really where your focus needs to be as I am afraid your boyfriend is not going to be very helpful prior or post delivery. You need to get as ... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing, and how do I get over this?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend since last summer, he has been wonderful and supported me during a stress related illness. I have given him lots of support too on many other areas of his life. We have our own homes which I help him with. In the last ...

A.   4 October 2009: Thank you for your response and this confirms everything my family and friends have already told me. I deserve much better than this. :-)... (read in full...)

Can love come without respect?

Q.   Ok, I'm asking this because I broke up with my boyfriend some time ago. He had given so many red flags that I thought it was time to let go finally. When we were going out, he called and texted me regularly, came over quite often, and bought me ...

A.   4 October 2009: I can tell that this person means alot to you. He is keeping is options open by staying in touch with you and his reward for doing so was you giving him your virginity. He will keep in touch with you as he will want to come back to be with you as ... (read in full...)

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