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How long can you last in bed?

SxyScotsman, posted over a year ago

Ok guys im curious as to where i measure up in terms of stamina so how long can u last when fucking your girl? I mean actual penetration from the moment u enter her till u cum.

Id say i last anywhere between 2 and 5 mins but it depends how horny i am. If really horny it'll b 2 mins.

How do i compare to you guys and ladies how long do u like it to last?

Posted on 19 October 2008 @ 22:34 (London time) - permalink
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pepper27pepper27, posted over a year ago

ALL NIGHT LOVE BUT IM OLDER N WISER NOW!!!!!N Ive got a nice young fella hope that helps life does begin at 40 LOVE MANDY XXXXXX

Posted on 19 October 2008 @ 23:7 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

I'm going to second that. As men age and mature sexually and emotionally; when they desire more than just sex-they crave intimacy, they have great stamina and focus on pleasing their woman and making the sexual intimacy FANTASTIC!!

Posted on 19 October 2008 @ 23:32 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Oh, and it' been known to go on for hours-the all night sex. Woo! *fans self* Men have been known to make it last up to an hour, if not more.

Posted on 19 October 2008 @ 23:33 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Pepper, Fade...you naughty girls! lol I loved what you wrote. And both of you are right on the money, with your assessments.

Posted on 19 October 2008 @ 23:45 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Really?? ALL NIGHT????? I heard of this lots but I never experienced it, what exactly does it mean? How often does "all night" happen? I know I must sound rediculous but what does it mean? Does it mean sex lots of times that night? or literally having sex all night long? *giggle, giggle!* I'm confused!!! (feel a little stupid asking) but seriously what does it mean?

Posted on 20 October 2008 @ 4:9 (London time) - permalink
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pepper27pepper27, posted over a year ago

Lots of sex hunny, Just all night long with a little massage n fun thrown inbetween and of course the day off the next day..Either that or very tired! maybe that why im so tired, maybe I dont need those vitamins? Oh well there not doing me any harm. Sex is the best form of relaxation sounds funny but your well relaxed the day after infact you can barely move :)

Posted on 20 October 2008 @ 8:58 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Oh, I get it!!! LOL! I always wanted to spend the whole weekend doing that, ha ha..Something to look forward to maybe when the kids are all grown up!!! I think it would be fun just to lay in bed all day & play! You lucky ladies!!

I always stopped to think after someone said they had sex all night, I wondered if they were doing something seriously right and the rest of us didn't know about!! or if they were doing something seriously wrong and took all night to accomplish it!!!

Posted on 20 October 2008 @ 15:41 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

In honesty if i only got 5 minutes i'd be v disappointed!

Posted on 12 December 2008 @ 11:25 (London time) - permalink
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survivor1987, posted over a year ago

try starting out with some really good oral sex! a really good blow job can make any man come really good, then he will need a rest, then if he is like mine, he will want to fuck, and if you alternate between sucking and fucking it can last all night.. yeah baby!

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 5:19 (London time) - permalink
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survivor1987, posted over a year ago

lots of fucking, sucking, etc.. get a girl off real good to start it off, just like with a guy, and its on!

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 5:21 (London time) - permalink
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survivor1987, posted over a year ago

is it wrong to be horney when your mans away? I have just been so .. that I am going crazy...

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 5:25 (London time) - permalink
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sommersloversommerslover, posted over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being horny when your guy is away. Just masterbate until he returns.

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 9:12 (London time) - permalink
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survivor1987, posted over a year ago

oh hell no....that aint gonna work.. I will just have to wait.. no biggee

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 9:50 (London time) - permalink
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eddieeddie, posted over a year ago

I'd bet the posters estimate of 5 minutes is probably normal. I don't think most guys can do it porn style. From what I've heard, most women don't want an hour of straight intercourse either.

Posted on 14 December 2008 @ 23:30 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Well...

Stamina and good control can make a hot love session last longer than 5 minutes and I know first hand it can go hours with breaks by changing activities, mixing it up.

But the average sex session is 10 minutes, especially in age groups.

Posted on 15 December 2008 @ 1:44 (London time) - permalink
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eddieeddie, posted over a year ago

I thought 10 minutes was tops and that included dinner!!!! Actually, while I don't have a huge issue with porn, and I don't really use it, I think it distorts reality. I think that is part of the sexual frustration that some men feel. For some reason they begin to believe that porn is real. I'd bet it's more accurate to assume that people who behave like that are actually on the fringes. As for sex for hours, sure it happens. Most people don't do that very often though. A hot love session is open to interpretation too. I think an average sexual encounter from the point of getting into bed to finishing, 20-30 minutes. Don't forget it depends on both people too. Sometimes when we've been married for a long time it can actually be an arranged event as opposed to fireworks and lightening. Although we all wish for the fireworks all the time it's not realistic to expect it to happen. Marriage is compromise. I think most honest men will admit they've had times when they were in the middle of sex and realized it was mostly being done for their benefit. I don't like that but I'd be fibbing if i said it hasn't happened.

Posted on 15 December 2008 @ 4:47 (London time) - permalink
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TELLULAHTELLULAH, posted over a year ago

I did it for 7 hours once almost non-stop. All it did was make me sore because the guy was rather large (down there).

Still you know what they say "Horses have big co**s but there not known for being sensitive lovers"

Posted on 15 December 2008 @ 16:23 (London time) - permalink
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flexguy, posted over a year ago

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Posted on 21 December 2008 @ 23:0 (London time) - permalink
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BigSisBigSis, posted over a year ago

''How long can you last in bed?''

All night.....if I had the 'right' guy.

:o)

''Id say i last anywhere between 2 and 5 mins but it depends how horny i am. If really horny it'll b 2 mins.''

Oh dear, you poor thing. Go get yourself some 'enhancement' or the right woman.

BigSis

x

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eddie, posted 1 week ago;

''From what I've heard, most women don't want an hour of straight intercourse either.''

Ha! Not this woman Eddie!

:^p

Tellulah. Fade and Peps...you rock!

xXx

Posted on 22 December 2008 @ 18:16 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

There was an answer from another aunt last week on more or less the same sort of thing that had me in stitches - it was 'Think of Lorraine Kelly or dogshit or something'.

You could try that.

Posted on 22 December 2008 @ 18:30 (London time) - permalink
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BigSisBigSis, posted over a year ago

Nothing wrong with Lorraine Kelly. I think she's rather cute.

Posted on 22 December 2008 @ 23:35 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

I have been a relationship for two years and it was very satisfying sex, every night, at least once.

I have been in a 6 months relationship and it is non stop marathon sex. Weekends are non stop, can go for hours.

I think when the right man and woman team up, the sex can be phenomenal. If both are comfortable with themselves, both are open and honest about their needs, desires, and the friendship is strong, you result in the longer than 10 minutes.

I've mixed it up with the quickie but overall, I average waaayyyy longer than 10 minutes.

Currently, a quickie is about half an hour.

It takes great control and age is in fact a factor.

I've had younger lovers before, and they are robust but never could do the longer lengths.

I prefer men in the 30+ range.

Both sex drives mesh.

Posted on 24 December 2008 @ 1:52 (London time) - permalink
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eddieeddie, posted over a year ago

Try being in a relationship for 25 years. If you can n=manage marathon sex there can't be kids walking around the house. It's get a little more difficult to lock yourself in a room when the kids, 19 and 16 are about.

Anyway, I'm not really saying the 10 minutes is the average for the entire act of sex but it is not easy without slipping away for a dirty weekend to spend hours in the sack.

I do believe there are many different types of people too and the average woman is a little less interested in marathon sex. Power to you if you are but I don't think it's a common as the other end of the scale. We were watching some comedians the other night talk ling about men, women and sex. The jist of the act was that men are the ones that are always pestering for sex. Every woman in the room agreed. That says something.

For me, the more the better. Keep it interesting too!!

Posted on 24 December 2008 @ 2:42 (London time) - permalink
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HoneypieHoneypie, posted over a year ago

I guess it really depends on what you do and how you do it.

Learn control. A good hand job for instance can make a guy so close several times, making it last a good 15 minutes. All about control and technique. ( and lots of lube) *grin* But you know your aren't done just yet. I think very few guys don't "rise" to attention while touching exploring the partners body. Hands and tongue. Work it!

Another angle can be Tantric sex & Karma Sutra.. It can be an all nighter.

http://hinduism.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ/Ya&sdn=hinduism&cdn=religion&tm=28&f=00&tt=14&bt=1&bts=1&zu=http%3A//www.tantraworks.com/

Being married for 10 years with 3 smaller kids, we have learned to TAKE the time, when we have it and spice it up. There are times it goes on all day, though we don't stay in the bedroom, it's about teasing and taunting (sexually that is) all thruout the day and when we get a chance we go for it, as often as we can.

Other times we only get away with a real quickie - in the shower - on the way to the bedroom before work. whichever.

No one says it has to take a long time to get of your rocks, but it should be fun. If you however want it to last longer, start with some massage, some oral. Make her get off a few times. I bet you she won't mind either.

Posted on 26 December 2008 @ 3:11 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

I think it's a crock! Like really how many times could a person stand to give oral in one night? and how long can a woman last without going bone dry? - yeah, like 20 mins - and if you know eachother's spots then every thing there is to do and both partners can have multiple orgasms in less than 30 minutes then what is there left to do?? The job is done!! right? why keep going isnt' that like self torture or something? do you want to be bull legged? wouldn't it just get boring? I think I'd rather have a good nap instead! So like, after a person's body gives up and they dry out cause they are just not into it anymore... Then you lube up and keep going???? what for?

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 4:57 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Just because you can't have multiple orgasms, does not make it untrue. Just because you may not squirt, does not make it true.

I used to believe the same thing, until recently and I discovered, you can go all hours and you can squirt.

Some people have high sex drives, just like some have little to no sex drive.

Some are have over lucrative glands, others don't.

Some are so into one another that they want and desire and CAN sustain hours of love making, and there are those who don't enjoy sex, are angry, resentful, spiteful, and it's easier to believe its BS and lash out, instead of seeking after their own sexuality.

Happy New Year's Fellow Canucklehead.

Peace be yours.

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 5:4 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-time-to-give-up-on-this.html

I don't think I need to say more.

And to be fair, I did message PVT, and what I said was to please step back, take a breath.

You have taken this post and have projected your traumas onto this posters and the advice you are giving are your desires to have the outcomes that would save your Dad and with it, your unresolved anger, abandonment issues, are coming through.

To which he became angry.

He began the taunts and name calling first.

I'm not the only Aunt that has had the privelage of having a nasty PM from him, and him telling other Aunts they remind him of his wife and they need help and counseling and they can be friends if they but listen to him.

My advice is to block him.

this way when he reacts, he has no outlet for his abuse.

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 5:43 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Bugs blushes and blushes some more.Still keeps blushing.Doesn't know what to type.But wants to clarify things so badly.Here we go!

Fade you posted it in the wrong post.hee hee.Well let me not get side tracked and proceed before I lose out on my courage.

No I am not lying.

With the right woman, a man can have and wants to have oral sex all night long.He just cannot get enough of her.I think the same applies for the woman too.

You can go with out being dry for an entire 14 hours.I have to take a break to sleep.

Yes you realize the day after about the soreness.Even then it was not difficult to walk.Just a slight feeling of being tender when you sit down.

Love is the key.Sex is amazing when it involves emotions and feelings.You cannot get enough of the person.Heart beats are understood.Words are whispered."Where did the time go?.Sandwiches can be had in bed.Let's have that."

So the answer to this question is it depends on the couple and the emotions and love they have for each other.

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 10:25 (London time) - permalink
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pepper27pepper27, posted over a year ago

Well I don't no about anyone else but my sex drive has gone from ok to argggggggg n wooooo hoooooo! when I was in my 20s it was no were near the same as it is now..Sis hunny its true eh!!!!!Us women get more horny the older we get, Well its true for me and my friend will agree I no that! Anywho its new yrs eve I'm planing on having a blast and I hope you all have lots of fun love and peace in the new year LUV ME XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX N WOW BUGS U ROCK CHICK!!!!!XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 10:50 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Sexy Peps! Its love that rocks.I think I will be the most frigid woman on earth with out love!!

Posted on 31 December 2008 @ 13:20 (London time) - permalink
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