eyes wide open!!

sexylinz, posted over a year ago

i am starting this post as i want to celebrate...n boy do i have reason. today is the day that i have finally realised that my (was) fiance is a controll freak who wanted a robot other than a girlfriend. i must say that it has taken me nearly 3 years to realise but atleat im finally there.

After ignoring all the advice n comments from friends and family and trying to stick up for him trying to delude myself into thinking that if i did as he asked things would change. now i realise that it is never going to happen and i am actually better off on my own.

although i will not officially be on my own untill the end of the week, once i have found somewhere to live, i know that in my heart of hearts i will eventually be on my own and i am happy about it.

i am glad i have realised what this man is like as i can now get on with my life without me wondering what am i doing wrong...how can i change things?

i can now be happy

i can now be comfortable with myself and know that i am young, i will eventually find the right person but i do not need a man to validate who i am. i do not need to be with a man just to feel like i belong. i will be able to belong anywhere as long as i am happy.

So to all the people out there who are not happy in their relationships but are afraid, i ask you to join me. Be on your own and be happy.

Posted on 18 February 2007 @ 16:45 (London time) - permalink
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dragonette, posted over a year ago

Congratulations! I don't even know you but I feel so happy for you!!

I'm happy too, I finally got a driver's license.

Posted on 18 February 2007 @ 16:56 (London time) - permalink
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sexylinz, posted over a year ago

well done dragonette thats my next goal i've set

Posted on 18 February 2007 @ 17:22 (London time) - permalink
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luvme247, posted over a year ago

Good thing you got out now before going through with the marriage. Noone needs to be controlled like that. I am glad that you are happy & wish you the best. I'd join ya, but I don't think my husband & kids would be too happy with me ;) Good Luck to you!

Posted on 19 February 2007 @ 7:37 (London time) - permalink
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luvme247, posted over a year ago

i don't know where the "amp" came from in those emails. I swear they were not there when I clicked the post message button. That was wierd. ;)

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, posted over a year ago

Good stuffs Goddess Linz! [applauds] 8)

Posted on 19 February 2007 @ 8:0 (London time) - permalink
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dragonette, posted over a year ago

The &amp; characters probably comes out if you press the ampersand button instead of writing "and".

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willywombat, posted over a year ago

GOOD girl!!

I hope that you find happiness hunny!!

Posted on 19 February 2007 @ 13:43 (London time) - permalink
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