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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi I desperately need some advise on a guy I have met online. We have a really good connection and in person the attraction is there too.He has made it clear he would like to see how things develop between us and that he likes me a lot and I like him too. However, one thing is really making me cautious and I don't know if it's a sensible reaction or just a self esteem issue He has other online friends , which one would expect considering the way we met but my concern is that when he told me about them mentioned that one he was sexually incompatible with ( due toWhat she seeks sexually) and another he is helping through a breakup. There are others but my alarm bells just started to go off but I'm not sure if I'm just being paranoid after being hurt. Very reluctant to meet again and let myself fall because something tells me I will be hurt . I have given this some space and stepped back to see what he does with these 'friendships ' or if he meets someone elseAm I being silly? I don't have an issue with a partner having female friends but these seem intimate and was hoping to find a partner who would not be emotionally intimate with many woman.Help me put this in perspective . I don't think he is a player but should I run. I tried raising if gently but he just said , they are only friends.
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reader, mr. love scienc3 +, writes (22 January 2015):
 Many people get that way but I believe that if he is into you then he wouldn't be going for no one else. you have that feeling that you get in your stomach but either you make your move or he has to.
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