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*assie71
writes:Well i've been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months and in the beginning we agreed to keep things casual but in the past couple of months i've started to have feelings for him but i haven't told him this. He has said that what we have is just a fling and i didn't say i disagreed with him. The thing is his actions say different to what he actually says, as in he's very affectionate, we text each other when we are not together and he's lent me keys to his apartment so can someone give me insight to what he actually thinks?Thanks
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 February 2010):
This is what happens when you get involved casually. One of the two falls for the other. You are a casual friend to him. That's it. You could try talking to him to know where you really stand, but my feelings are you going to find yourself being turned down. Still, has to be worth a try. I suggest you gently speak to him about how he feels. But if he doesn't want to take it further, you need to move on or you'll find yourself even more hurt.
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reader, keysha  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 YOU! have to be the one to put a stamp on what you want and what you don't want some men are dogs lets face it they want there cake and eat it to he wants to leaves things open so if anything was to happen he could say that it's no "commitment" between the both of you that's just how guy work that's why you as the female have to stand up for what you want! good luck!
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