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writes: Hi everyone. I've just split up with my fiance in the heat of the moment of an argument and I don't know what to do. It's definately over and he's not answering the phone or texts and I regret finishing it. Im texting him saying can we work it out as we were both tired when we rowed, but no reply. How do I move on and get over him? As its clear it's over and he doesn't want me anymore. Please help! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Seeing as he doesn't want you no more there's no point phoning or texting him so stop that. Moving on from someone who you were going to marry can be hard, it takes time. But remember that eventually you'll be able to move on and realise that there was no point wasting your time on him and try and put the relationship back on time. Instead of thinking about trying to get a second chance with him why don't you do something that you enjoy. It'll help you move on quicker.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Dear anon
i think you are being a little irrational, you just fought and people handle conflicts in different manner i dont know what it was about, how heavy it was, but throwing the towel now while you know you still need a bit of time to chat this over might leave you more sad. stop contacting him and let yourself calm down a bit, because you still seem upset and impatient with him so this will give you time to go thru that argument and if it can really be resolved or not, you need that moment of thinking yourself this will help you see your relationship in a different light. otherwise if he does respond as you demand him to you might end up fighting again and that is not what you need right now.
relax and keep yourself busy, if after few days he hasnt contacted you and you feel a lot calmer and relaxed then call him and tell him you have decided to move on with your life and you wish him luck. if he ignores your call text him and forget him. hope this helps.
jovial
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