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Is he just using me as a rebound?

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Question - (11 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok...i was seeing this guy but we broke up because he wanted to get back with his ex. So he stopped all contact with me in case i ever said anything. He told me a few days ago that they broke up but then they got back together and he says he will never get back with her again.

I'm worried that if anything happened with us and if she wanted him back, he would drop me instantly like he did before to go back to her.

I am also thinking that maybe he's just using me as a rebound, but I am wanting to have a serious relationship for once and not just for fun...what am i to do?

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A female reader, cliffsgirl United States +, writes (12 August 2009):

girl just move on. its not worth it. live your life proudly and happy and just know you can be with someone better than him. I'm going thru the exact thing. it hurts but know it'll be all over

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009):

Previous experience has taught me if a guy dumps you for an ex do not go back with him as he will do it again,you are just filling his time he is using you

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