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*odkablue
writes:hey guysi really would appreciate some advice. just an update on this ok so my ex fiance got in touch via facebook 2 weeks ago and when i responded to his request i added a note which he never replied to . so imy mind worked overtime thinking all sorts. it does seem weird that on looking on his facebook page he got married 4 months ago so i havent seen/spoke to him for 6 years so i cant understand why he got in touch anyway i felt really uneasy about the whole thing ie being on the same page as his wife and friends we both mutually knew which i dont see anymore. it just seems weird.i deleted the connection-i just didnt want to be looking at wedding pics and stuff simply because we had a really bad split and to be honest i thought it was a chance to clear the air but if anything im more confused now. since deleting him last week ive heard nothing so now i dont know whether he was just trying to get a rise out of me whether he was sincere or just playing mind games . im very very confused and to be honest upset too because i dont know what happened. any opinions gratefully received.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 well.. i think he just tries to keep the circle of friendship with you, and nothing's more than that.
I don't see he tries to play the mind game. My ex also in my friend list face book. He has a girlfriend..and they look very happy. I also sometimes add comment on his status, but this is all just friendship stuff.
I think you dont need to be sceptic on his friend request. Also, regarding with the note of yours that he never replied..well, just forget it. Perhaps, he just doesnt want to reply it..well, sometimes we also ignore men' notes as well, rite? :)
But, if his wedding pictures bothers you..it's a good decision to delete him from your friendslist.
But, i can tell.. he's definetely not trying to play the mind game. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Maybe that was just how he felt at that time and was just feeling friendly towards you..??
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