After 10 years of being lonely I thought I had found the perfect man in my new husband, but now we are having so many problems I don't know what to do anymore...

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I married a male after my First hubby died. After 10 years of lonely times I found this one having all my desires, least i thought so. First he comes in, changes my home, re-decorated all to his liking. i paid for the re-decorations at my mortgages.2nd into the marriage. He never takes me to his his re-union, leaves me home with his aged mom. Second he and i go on vacation he takes mom and 2 friends with us because he cannot drive that miles with sleeping at wheel. He would not let me drive at all even though its my car..He does not like me driving he said. I drove before we married to work without any hassles or accidents...long stories within itself. He had to his prostate removed due to cancer found, now he says he's as limp as newborn. He sleeps in one place, i sleep in another. He closes his door and never helps me on bills, or he has his own bills. Being married before.and divorced..his medical surgery..bills. I feel as lonely as i did before i even married..and i get no talk, hardly from him, he leaves the room, to talk with friends on internet and who know's what else. Help with feedback.?

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